Is it better that we have the choice to say goodbye, very possibly for the last time?, Or is it better not to have a goodbye?
Really I’m sure it’s the first one. At least than you can accept when someone goes that it’s true, …maybe
I guess it’s hard either way most of the time,
“No sir, I don’t like it”
Thoughts?
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Why are you saying good bye? you better not .
And I would say good bye and I love them e ven thouge I dont take them as close freinds I still like got yous .if that makes sence.
It’s not me but another friend that may have gone.
Well that stinks how you holding up ?
May have gone? What happened?
Personally, I think I’d suffer either way. But I already know that if prefer the former.
In the last three years, two of my relatives died. My stepfather and my great grandmother. The first died of a heroin overdose. Just dropped dead out of nowhere without a goodbye. The second died in a hospice, after a long fight. Both were emotional torture. But I never, ever want to lose someone like I lost my stepdad ever again. It’s just so much worse. Goodbyes are excruciating, but I’ll always prefer them to the agony of being denied one.
I think you could just leave a letter or mention them in your note
That’s a different kind of goodbye I’m talking about a one to one.
And its Ylem, haven’t heard from her since Friday the 1st, april seems to be a hard month for us all…
I miss Ylem 🙁
I’ve been thinking about her a lot, lately. I hope she’s alive.