So my husband comes home from work (he got a job with his parents) and apparently he had a bad day. I spent the day learning how to make Onigiri (Japanese rice balls) granted it didn’t take me long but still. I made some for him because I know manual labor is hard and I wanted him to know he’s loved. He comes in and starts throwing off his clothes angrily (he was going to take a shower) and I made the mistake of asking what’s wrong. He yelled at me that he had a bad day and not to start in on him. I told him that I didnt cause it and not to treat me poorly. He got even more pissed and said I was fishing for a fight. I went upstairs and waited for a wihile. When I went back down to try and talk with him he plum ignores me. I didn’t do anything to deserve this and now if I don’t apologize to him for fishing for a fight he’s going to ignore me the rest of the night. He won’t even look at the stupid rice balls I spent an hour making. Why has my life come to this? Why can’t I leave? I would kill myself but my animals need me too much.
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Tell him to come to this website and look at all the people here who are suffering and contemplate taking there own lives, a bad day at work is nothing to cry over, he has you too talk things out with and see its not so bad, he shouldn’t take you for granted, he’s just sulking, tell him not to make it a habit and kiss his cheek 🙂
Men are simple little beasts, if he’s being really moody and you want to skip “I’m Sorry”part you could always undress and sit on his lap with a smile on your face, that’ll fix his bitchy mood.
Snowy, it’s him that has a problem not you, WHY OH WHY Do people have to be idiots? I TRY SO HARD MYSELF IT’S NEVER ENOUGH! But sit back and take a deep breath, you will figure out what you need to do.
It’s not like he lost his job or anything.
I think if someone reacts that way to one bad day they probably have more problems on the inside. I’m sorry you have to deal with him being angry. People can turn into someone completely different when they’re like that and if he can’t deal with it without taking some of it out on you then I’d try to avoid him until he’s calmed down – but that’s much easier said than done. I’m sorry you’re hurting because of his mistakes.
I understand what you are going through. I am in a relationship with someone who has mood swings like your husbands. I spend days walking on egg shells cause he’s upset about who knows what. I get the silent treatment for days…it sucks but I am numb to it now. I’m sorry you are in this situation. Try to not let it get to you because it’s not your fault.
I know it just hurts so much, I’m always at fault and always the one making things worse. I hate it and I don’t want this anymore but I have no other options. I hate feeling stuck.