Finding it harder and harder to stay……
I’ve got no reason to. So why should I?
No reason to live.
Don’t want to live with these feelings anymore.
I’m wasting my time…..
Senior year of college, don’t give a fuck about school, don’t want to go back, it is full of horrible memories of anxiety and blood, and giving up and attempted suicide…. messed up quite badly, I’d need a 5th year to graduate….. I want to give a fuck about school, but things just don’t matter to me anymore……..I don’t have much longer till classes start again…hoping I won’t be here……..
What a waste of a life…someone could do so much more with this time, no…I could do so much more with this time, I just don’t want to… I don’t want to be here anymore….
I severely and heavily cut, though I have managed to not do it much lately I don’t know why. Maybe I needed a break….. I’ve been self-destructing so hard….. so tired.. want this to end. I have never touched my right arm, only my left. I think I want to now…. I need some blood…
~Oathkeeper
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Hi Oathkeeper, I think first you need to organize your thoughts. Decide what is a priority and what isn’t. Also what barriers you put up in front of yourself which prevent you from being where you want to be.
I used to be highly driven at one point in my life. I competed with others, wanted to get ahead. Then I was hit with depression and it all came to a stop for me.
I also didn’t want to live anymore at the time, stopped caring about my grades, I did very poorly in the first year university. Eventually I decided that I wanted to get my education and a decent career, so I busted my ass to complete my degree and tried to find work in my field.
I can see that you’ve trapped yourself in your own thinking. I also used to believe I wasted a lot of time and could’ve been further ahead in life. However you must deal with the here and now and your own unique situation. Not everyone can become a CEO or a neurosurgeon. Focus on goals that you know you can achieve and work towards them.
I realize some people have an intense desire and compulsion to cut/mutilate their body. But you need to step back and think seriously about what you’re doing. If you injure yourself, you will be reliant on others to take care of you for even the most basic tasks. Even trying to end your life would become nearly impossible if you lose the function of your arms (unless you jump off a cliff or something).
Find better ways to cope with your pain and anxiety that you feel. You can exercise, play video games, go for a walk, many options available.
I’m in my mid 40s now and I would say that my social life had really suffered because I was very career-oriented. I feel that I missed out on a lot. But looking at it another way, I was working towards a goal which allows me to live a better quality of life than if I just stuck with a 9-5 job, where I’d feel like a slave or prisoner.
The path I chose gives me a great deal of freedom and I’m in a career now that many would consider to be a privileged position. Once I reach a certain ‘level’ then I’ll enjoy my life in a way I could’ve only dreamed of when I was younger…so in that sense my time was not wasted at all. Everything I did in my past lead me to this point today.
What it boils down to is will power, determination, being goal-oriented and putting aside all your fears, emotions, etc to focus on improving your life-however you choose to define it.
I see it as a binary decision, go or stop. If you decide to keep living then don’t bounce along the bottom because you’ll just stay unhappy and miserable for the rest of your life. Actually work hard at getting somewhere. If you don’t want to live anymore that’s fine also-your decision.
A few times in my life I also really wanted to die, but since I realized I wasn’t going to kill myself, I decided to move forward in life and I’m very glad that I did. I was in a very bad way and I’m glad I didn’t stay stuck in that mindset. Like you it too me an extra year to graduate but so what? In the grand scheme of things, it’s irrelevant and trivial. Focus on what really matters in life.
what do you do for a living?
I work in finance, sorry I can’t get any more detailed than that since I value my privacy.
Maybe I shouldn’t have used the word severely, I meant the amount that I do is severe. I always have full use of everything, otherwise that would just be another reason to go. I was fine my first year of school, perfect grades all year, then second year hit and I died because this crap all started. I don’t have any goals, I don’t want to do anything, just disappear. I continue to set things up for myself in case I am unable to end my life, so that if I do fail and get hospitalized, or am away for a bit, I can continue on like “nothing happened” and await the next try or something….. I don’t know.
The things I do in my free time, used to be able to take me away, I used to be able to get lost in them, not anymore. I have too much sadness, anger, anxiety, and frustration, which is why I probably self-harm so much.
I didn’t even bother to go to college out of high school cause I knew I was going to suicide. Then I bought my suicide supply and was psych hospitaled. I’m like
Ok I’m not dead what good is that. That has been my only plan since 12.5 years old to suicide at 18. Now I’m 23 and I slam my head against the wall and I get pissdd off cause I have no way to
Complete suicide. I spend each day looking for methods I ain’t think of but worst of all I need to leave my house like 12 miles to even complete suicide and I have no way to leave. I just want to shoot myself but I make 0$/year and a gun costs 350$ for the cheapest. The only thing I have either is slit my throat or jump off a cliff. I live in a town of retarded pricks,