I’m having doubts about my relationship. It’s not the racisism. Its the being divorced. Ive told him he should go talk to someone cause he’s still so .. broken. Theres still so much anger and resentment. im feeling like I’m fucking third wheeling a dead marriage.
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this post was a wild ride from the second sentence. Is he even the best guy for you?
Mine too. Just wish I hadn’t married and stayed single.
I wish he’d stayed single… rather then pursued a relationship with me when he wasn’t ready for it.
Is it hard to imagine getting away from him now?
We’re both terrible communicators and neither like confrontation so yeah. He used to be suicidal before meeting me. I don’t think he’s ruled it out as something he would never do. I don’t think he’d care if we broke up. I don’t feel ‘us’ is all that special to him. He’s more caught up in the past then our future
Sounds like you could do it though. Just get past your aversion to confrontation. There probably wouldn’t be any if he feels these ways.
*note: I’m not rasist. He is.