i had a fight with my bestfriend and i think i ruined our friendship with it, she said she needed space and left me hanging with one of the hardest moment of my life coming up. she was doubting us being beter again and it breaks my heart since she was the only person who made me realise life can be nice and worth living she means evrything to me and il do evrything for her. sadly i ruined it i guess if she leaves me its time for me to leave this cruel world.
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Give her the space she needs, let her come back in her own time. Sometimes people need time apart so they can come together again in a better place.
There are other people in the world, I know it hurts fighting with someone you feel that close with and losing them isn’t easy, but you can go on without her if it does come to that.
Until you lose someone who meant so much to you, I think it is hard to know how much it hurts.
Try to give her the space she requested and then try to mend this in the future. Sometimes it’s hard to know what others might be going through.
I have also been left hanging by my ex boyfriend but this is due to my constant erratic behaviour.
Sorry. On another note I don’t think it’s considerate that she left you hanging like that… but yeah. I don’t know if this is of any help but I’m receiving help for my severe distress, I don’t want to live knowing that my ex boyfriend no longer cares. While I don’t know how much it will help in the end I am telling this person all of my problems and trying to find ways to cope because I was suffering horribly, I had gotten myself really drunk to forget about this all.
I truly hope that this will end up resolved some day soon. Sometimes space can do good. And I am sorry 🙁
thanks for your comment yeah im kinda the fault to of the fight, im not the easyest person to be with 🙁
and sorry to hear about you and youre ex bf