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by elleInWi

And again some guy always has to ruin my way of venting and freedom of speech. Constantly bein shunned by men my whole fkn life and its like who tf asked u? I never said they could talk to me. They never think that sometimes women dont need that “tough love” bs in their life. But thanks again for thinkin i needed your 2 cents. Im done venting on here, not even gonna bother comin back. Just keep my life to myself and continue being bitter towards every1. Yall basically stab me in the back n ask why im bleeding anyways. So yea this site hasnt been helpful n tired of justifying myself and havin to explain my actions and people assuming im lazy n shit. Adios bitchachos

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Abnormal.Thoughts 3/9/2021 - 9:17 am

Well, I commented on the previous post, not sure it will be seen now… but I’m sorry. I’m sorry that you didn’t get what you needed. I’m sorry for your situation.
I hope that you dig your way out of this mess. I hope that in the near future you find yourself in a better position.
I wish you all the best.
On a side note, I think they were just trying to help. I don’t believe there was ill intent in the advice you received, they didn’t know. Yes, they could have been kinder, you get to make your decisions and there is always more to the story than we can know from a few journal entries here. I also try to keep in mind that no one on here is a professional that is qualified to provide mental help or otherwise, we are all broken in one way or another, and that means we all do stupid shit too.

system 3/9/2021 - 10:34 am

God, how do some people not understand that struggling does not equal lazy? You’re going through an incredibly fucking difficult time and they can’t even empathize. Jesus Christ.

Robert77 3/9/2021 - 10:48 am

It does hurt me to see insensitive people in a place like this. You are the one that belongs here and they don’t. These insensitive ones that come here probably don’t suffer like the rest of us here do. I believe they are just mental health college students coming here to practice on those of us that suffer. You can see them a mile away. Just ignore them ElleInWi .

system 3/9/2021 - 10:59 am

I second this

thedevilisclose 3/9/2021 - 11:01 am

i didnt know it was insensitive to have a perspective. i can see and understand why op would be upset however they did say SEEMS not is. it was merely their perspective and what they were seeing not what they just assumed happening. there is a difference.

system 3/9/2021 - 11:20 am

The way they spoke to her was really condescending and insensitive. They could have kept their “perspective” to themselves. This is a place to vent, OP never asked for anyone to come in and try to “save” her or fix her situation. OP’s situation is unbelievably tragic and complicated, and what we see here is probably only the tip of the iceberg. I highly doubt her words do justice to the shit she and her kids are going through right now.

system 3/9/2021 - 12:30 pm

I–
that was cold. Alright then.

system 3/9/2021 - 12:38 pm

I don’t know. I apologize if I came off as rude. I’m just a little protective I think, despite not knowing OP personally. From what I see, she’s a very hard-working mother wading through hell for the sake of her children’s happiness. I really admire that about her.

thedevilisclose 3/9/2021 - 12:44 pm

*hugs*
i understand that. i was just trying to say that maybe the lack of response and repeated “complaining” probably seemed insensitive to the other person. it seems like they were trying to help op in previous posts and i mean…how would you feel if every time you tried to help someone they, what seemed like ignored you, as you had no way to know that it was read. and not only that but continued to make, yes i understand, venting posts. but….i can see how that could hurt the other person as well. cant you?

Once 3/9/2021 - 12:58 pm

I’ve enjoyed your posts, the funny memes and pics. Maybe a break will help. Just know that many of us don’t equate struggling with lazy. We equate it with trying to stay afloat by any means necessary on cess pool Earth. I’m not familiar with the particular comments you’ve experienced that have led you to this frustration, but would suggest to these folks that they learn a bit of tolerance, sympathy and empathy, or else take a flying f*ck. There’s too much stupid in the world, and some people just don’t believe that, they feel theirs is needed. Take care, maybe we’ll see you back.

blue_dude15 3/10/2021 - 1:16 am

I’m sorry that happened. I don`t even know if you’ll read this comment but I`m going to miss you despite not knowing you personally. My words might sound empty but I hope things get better for you

Jhecev 3/10/2021 - 1:10 pm

I used to be in a terrible place in my life but I got through it
I often thought the people demanding I get better aggressively were horrible but I can see now that they probably meant the best
It’s not that there’s anything wrong with me or suicide it’s just people don’t like it and want better for you and I’m glad that people didn’t give up and made some sort of effort to help even when I was pushing them away
I didn’t put much effort to see what you’re mad about
Some people are in fact out to get you but I have found they still offer an opportunity to learn
The wrong answer is often important to know
You remind me of myself

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