I think once the heart is broken , nothing will be the same again. Yes , one can heal but it’s never the same . 
You do become stronger -in fact , you become a lot stronger . You learn to find yourself and who you are . You grow up , you mature and you become bolder. It’s all learning process . Yes, it is all an experience . But, you’ll never be the person you were before. As much as you try , it’ll never be the same.
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Some die from a broken heart
“nobody cares you broke your elbow”
Helplessness is what I’m hearing. I might be wrong.
Some people, they spit in your face on purpose. they’ll say, “you’ll never be the same after I do this to you” to feel powerful.
It’s just a game then. A pointless one. Makes me think of big names. I always wonder, “what do u mean you miss people, that you’re afraid of going out in public, all you do is use and talk down to people. What’s a speck of dust? Obviously the meeting a stranger thing will never be the same bc you weren’t creative enough. You spat at the big face so ha, frickin loser. Spit at me again! You’ll never be unknown and mysterious! Evur. Evur. ”
But anyways change and learning is good. A part of life. Just have to savor the moments and treat people well so you can C relive the nostalgia accurately in the future
Helplessness is what I’m hearing. I might be wrong.
Some people, they spit in your face on purpose. they’ll say, “you’ll never be the same after I do this to you” to feel powerful.
That’s why we avoid people like that. 🙂 :B
They live to be the leader for no reason. Can’t laugh with them. Can’t relax. Nothin.
The Anne Hathaway “do u know who I am” shit people do before they toss you in the garbage
Or the Anne Hathaway “who am I, do u know who my journey is” shit they do for a whole decade /while treating you like garbage/ nobody needs it”
Reminds me of you’re on camera
How people expect right away “you’ll be punished by millions” or “everybody HEARD you”
fantasies with iPhone in hand
Even though people are just nosy and don’t really care for what 1 second
you’ll never trust like you did before though, and eventually you’ll become so covered in scars it’ll be hard to tell which is from what wound…
Stronger is a biased word here. You become better at patching yourself up, by necessity. Trust comes slower, which on average will protect you. There are people though who will never look at you. You’ll be too damaged for many, and it will make you keep your wounds as secret as possible.
For me it’s recovery after severe trauma, and yes that has made me kinder and smarter, but it doesn’t feel better. I have images in my head that will never leave. I’ll probably never sleep peacefully without drugs again. That’s the reality.
I’ve heard it for a long time, that being wounded makes one better, I think it’s that most people can’t accept a major part of them dying, and after it happens so often being mostly dead. Humans are masters of denial of unpleasant reality. We like to believe in fairy tales, like virtuous people coming out ahead, or awful acts having consequences, but ask yourself if you really believe that, or is it just a comforting lie.
It’s for these reasons I consider death the only relief from some forms of grief.
I agree – A broken heart once broken is never the same. It feels that your heart is in tatters and a huge part of you is missing especially when someone you hold dear betray that trust and faith.
Being wounded may make you stronger – limited to people who still have the strength and the will to pick themselves up again and soldier on. However for some, only suicide offers peace and relief from that mental torment.