Lies and begging for sympathy!!!
posts a long rant about me trying to make it sound like I’m crazy when I’m hurt by his avoiding me since he moved to the city and has his thin and popular friends around again, yet he will not allow me to post what I feel on facebook!
constantly posts shot like this to get sympathy from friends and family, who never knew about me for the whole time I was helping him out with everything. Always posts this shot saying no one likes him, he can’t get anyone, nice guys finish last bullshit when I have loved him since I met him
goes off on me with bullshit like this when all I wanted was to talk to him and see him again but he has no fucking time to talk to me.
By the way he sits on his ass plenty
I helped him when he had no one and needed money and a friend
I can’t show you locations but he says he doesn’t have bus fare to see me ever again and tells me to not put money on the card for him and I get an email about the status of my card and he put $20 on it. Also he said game was not happening today and the last few bus rides are him taking the fucking busses out to the suburb where game is!!!!!!!!!!
Now who is emotionally immature?!?! The fucking asshole that doesn’t want to be friends with someone who spent at least a couple thousand bucks on you out of good will because I’m too fat and ugly to stand being around!!!!!!
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Man… forget about him. Seriously. He doesn’t care and you’re just hurting yourself if you continue with this any longer… you’re worth a lot more than what idiotic guy gives you credit for.
not worth your time hun
I don’t care about the money it’s the emotional investment and the e woe is me about his birthday and I gave him what I could for his but he does not have time or money to see me for my birthday or to even chat with me now and he can’t see why I’m upset!?!?
Because he is a selfish immature jerk. Here let me lend you some of my fury.
OMG I am so glad they didn’t have social media when I was in high school. Kick him to the curb.
High school? We are in out 30’s and no excuse for people our age to act this way and be concerned with having thin friends and being popular!
Those pictures up there are posted by a non highschool person? OMFG. I am so sorry I assumed he was an idiot teenager cause well…that’s how he is acting.
Here let me lend you some of my rage, I don’t appear to be able to use it anyway.
Uhm no that’s a 32 year old and I’m about to be 38.
I’m sorry. I feel a bit like a heel for saying that earlier. It was a gut reaction and I’m just full of angry gut reactions tonight. Especially when you are being treated like shit. Stuff like this adds fuel to the fire tonight. I mean, I’d feel totally vulnerable and helpless if someone did this to me. I am so damn sorry he is treating you like this.
No worries about assuming we were younger. There’s no excuse for anyone over 30 to base their life around what everyone looks like, fitting in and being popular.
Thank God, for a minute there I thought I was going to have to take my righteous anger about your situation and go sadly home.
This is why you should never make someone your priority unless you’re positive it’s mutual.
Nice thought, but LIARS LIARS! there are so many liars out there. And they are disguised as honest hard working loving folks.
Maybe don’t make anyone your priority, period, then. Be like me and have no friends. 😉 Its an option.
Your option is feeling pretty fucking tempting tonight.
I’m too fat and ugly. I don’t have to worry about having male friends.
There’s such thing as someone with no friends? … now i feel like i’m not the only one who’s only friends are his keyboard and mouse.
(that sounds sad, but yeah, i’d rather have acquaintances and no friends than fake friends).
disgusting, I keep hearing you call yourself ugly and fat. I keep wanting to scream loud that you are beautiful inside…who gives a lion roars shit if some stuck up pretty boy can’t see the beauty in you? I know I know, he’s beautiful. God do I understand that. You are better than him. The package does not make the soul.
I never expected to meet someone who could win me over like that or be the only one… wait, no, we haven’t had sex or anything close but that’s a story for another time. I was going to actually confess that before shit went to hell today. What his promise to me that he is breaking is…concerning my birthday and something I paid money for that he said he would do as payback for all I’ve spent on him…
But I fell for him because he’s beyond gorgeous and I was the only one around him at the time
You can not stop wanting him because he is beyond gorgeous. You complain about almost every aspect of him apart from his looks. You say he treats you like crap and has no consideration for you but he is beyond gorgeous. The only thing you are considering is looks. Then you hate the fact that he is only interested in women for their looks, how can he be so immature and not see beyond looks when he is in his 30’s and should be more mature. You are both doing the exact same thing. You are chasing what you find gorgeous and so is he.
When you invest money or time and energy into helping someone it should be done simply because you care and want to help, not because you expect something in return or you expect them to change their opinion of you. You can’t buy peoples love.
But what would I know. Maybe that is how the world really works. I give up.
Mike, I have read your posts and comments for awhile. And you do give good advice and have sound points, even in this area that you have had poor experiences in. Kudos for this and for not being bitter towards women in general.
I have a fair bit of respect for you.
Interesting viewpoint
Mike you’re wrong hete. I’m beyond pissed. He hurt me so much the first time he yelled at me for just talking to him last Friday that it ends it for me. The MAIN point I had last week was it’s not fair that he constantly threatens to cut me out of his life unless I act a certain way and pretend to be OK with his shit. No, he lost the nest thing he ever had! I’m only stating fact that in my eyes, he’s my ideal. But no, he wouldn’t be an ideal for a lot of people. Yes a lot of girls might like him but nit many people will see one particular person as all their idea of perfect. And being a bigger guy I’m sure plenty of women wouldn’t see his stomach or man titties as attractive but yet still like him. The difference is in the fact that I love/d him as he is and wouldn’t change anything. And furthermore, it’s always the woman who’s expected to settle for someone she’s not even interested in as a face book friend while men can be ugly as sin and still demand a perfect beauty. So it falls on deaf ears to try to guilt and shame me into not liking bigger men because that’s never gonna change.
And no I wasn’t trying to buy his love. I said here that all I expected was for him to be a friend and care about me as a person. All I expected was for him to be honest and not to have lied about us being best friends and to not have ditched me as a friend that e second he gets back in the city and can be Mr popular again.
truly… this guy sounds like a complete asshole…
This reminds me of the time that I wound up spending shit tons of money, going as far as to nearly cosign on an apartment with a woman, because I swore she was the one and I wanted to be her lover….
We are friends still but man, I’m not doing that again… Especially when I didn’t know if the feeling was mutual or not.
So yeah, nepheliad makes a good point.
Oh yeah we were trying to get a place together but my bad credit and his restrictions didn’t let it happen. But this is how he acts being back in the city?!
Wow, he sounds like such a catch.
The world’s sxiest man is a selfish superficial asshole no woman could deal with the emotional abuse
I think disgusting is able to see past his looks and has tried to help him,but this guy cannot see past looks. There is someone right in front of him who actually cares yet he posts the crap shown in the original post. He posts this even though there is someone who is showing him attention and cares, even finds him attractive. Why can’t he find her attractive? Looks should not be everything. This guy should stop making stupid posts and comments and pay some attention to disgusting. Because he is lying. There is someone right in front of him… but because he seems to only care about looks, he seems to treat disgusting as if she were invisible
And he is emotionally abusive…
I don’t believe he’d be good for someone he is attracted to. Assuming he would find a girl tiny enough for him, she’d have to agree to swinging and an open relationship yet not cheat on him which I guess in his world is sex with someone else outside of certain events, and be a traditional “in the kitchen” type of woman, and probably still come last in his world because he wants to be Mr popular. I fail to see where the “hopeless romantic” part of this shit is?