I’m trying to be here and be happy but I just don’t know how long I can keep up this lie. I look at the person that really cares about me and feel so bad about lying to them. I’ve lied about a lot and I don’t want to keep lying but I feel that if I tell her what I really have going on in my head I think it would scare her so much she’d be afraid of me. Then just yesterday I did something stupid but she doesn’t know. The other day she asked me if I have been thinking about cutting again and I told her no but that wasn’t true. I’d been thinking about it a lot I just couldn’t teel her that. And I’m still having dreams about me cutting myself till I bleed to death and I don’t call for help or anything I just slowly die. So when I’m around her I’m all happy and laughy but behind that I’m as sad and lonely as can be. I’m trying to be truely happy but I just don’t see what there to be happy about. everyone is always telling me that I’m this great and wonderful person but all I see is an empty shell that doesn’t know where it belongs.I really want to be truthful I just don’t want her not to be proud of me. That I’m falling right back where I was. I wish I didn’t have to hide from everyone that I love. I want to go and die where no one can find me so when I’m gone no one will cry for me. I’ll get to die in peace with knowing no one knowing what happened to me.
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hold in there, and if possible stop lying to her is my advice. im sure if she knew what is going on she would want to help. keeping everything inside is not a good answer, i can attest to that from personal experiences. with the support of people who love you, you can keep from cutting. they can also help you find your place in life, if you let them.
hey, i feel your pain.
if the person that really cares about you really DID care about you, they wouldn’t care about your real thoughts and try to help you instead of being afraid! and DON’T CUT!!! It never solves ANYTHING! and i know it may seem like it helps; but it doesn’t. you could get many diseases from cutting. i used to cut and now i have infected scars on my arms. and about your dreams, i used to have some like those, too. but what i did was get to the bottom of it. why am i having those dreams? what’s causing them? and then i put a stop to the cause and i felt a whole lot better =] oh, by the way, you ARE a great and wonderful person, you just don’t see it yet =]
i felt as you are the same as me before. in school before i tried to pictured myself to be happy-go-lucky. but in reality that wasnt me. i faked my smiles, i faked my happiness, i faked my shine, but it is all fake. eventually, as i get older i realised that my past is somewhat fake. all i experienced is fake. the person who people know is fake. that not me. everytime people tell me about how cheerful i am, i smiled but in heart i know they didnt know the real me. i am alone. i fell into depression. eventually, my faked persona faded little by little as i am filled with negative thoughts. i am no longer the person whom i was to be. no longer smiled. no longer cheerful. but in my heart, i felt “this is real”. i believe that my real self is a dark, negative person. a sadist, maniacal savage, with a black heart full of malice. then a lot of people started leaving my life. but i dont care i bit. cause i am happy the way i am. i am happy being honest. but i felt alone. very alone for a long time. i started longing for my fake, past self. at then i realised something. i know i faked the whole thing. i faked my smiles. i faked my laughter. but why am i felt so envy of my past self? at that time, i realised that although my feelings are faked, some people’s feelings for me are probably real. maybe that what they called a feeling of “happiness”. and then i cried for a long time.
i made recovery little by little since that time. but i am still suffering. i pray that your future will be at a better end than me, since i lost a lot because i regretted too late.
masks always fade, they can never last forever. being who you are will help you accept that person, and will also help you find who will accept that person too. and alim, sadism is nothing to be ashamed of, “normal” people (not sadists or masochists) are weaker. control is the key.