My relationship with my partner of 12 years has failed. Â I gave up my family and my culture to be with him in another country. Â Somehow, I have managed to end up with no job, no career, no money and no prospects, with a 4 yearold and a 2 yearold in my care. Â I have struggled with depression and the care of 2 kids while hubby kept going with his fancy career and now he wants the kids. I have nothing to offer – there is no money or recognition in being the mother of my children. Â All the court wants to know is how I am going to provide for their financial and physical wellbeing. He has a loving family that supports him and the kids unconditionally, not so with me. Â I am beat – I am about to lose my kids and it is going to kill me. Â I cant even afford a divorce lawyer. Â There isnt much more to say. Â I hand them over at the end of the month. Â God help me.