This all started about 9 months ago, you had been flirting with ne a lot, or so i touhgt… One night i decided to call you and you came over. I was babysitting and our friends were upstairs, you dragged me into the bathroom and made me give you a blowjob, you never asked, you only said; c’mon please, just please do it. And knowing I can’t say no, I did it. The next few days you called and asked me to meet you at our friend’s house. I came to his house and you were there to invite me in, they were upstairs.. I’ll never forget the vibe I got when you caressed me and I felt your dick stone hard in your pants. You dragged me into the bathroom again, things got a little more serious then, but we didn’t go all the way. A week after these meetings where i went to see you, I was brainwashed, I couldn’t see you were only using me, bu everyone else could. My friend warned me multiple times about this but i never listened. That night i came alone. We went into the bathroom and you wanted to take me anal, I said a clear no, something I had never done to you before. Your attitude changed right away, and you started pushing me and be really angry, that was the first time I got scared and the last cause the fear has never gone away. You took me by the ass and started doing your thing, I started screaming..You slapped me and told me to shut up, you told me that noone cared about me and nobody cared what I said, and I belived it.
But it still hurt like hell and you were “good” enough in you to stop. But you weren’t done. You gave me some orange juice to drink, but it tasted a bit odd. Next thing I knew I was half naked in our friend’s room and you two jacking off to me. Then you took me to the bathroom and took my virginity. I tought I wanted it then, but I was just drunk. I would do anything to go back in time and not go meet you in the first place but I can’t. Instead I’ve been dealing with severe depression and mistrust towards my friends and now, my boyfriend who I love so, so, so much. But i just can’t trust him, I’m always thinking; what if he’s just using me?? I don’t want to live like this anymore and I’m constantly thinking about suicide, but I don’t have the guts to do it… Maybe that’s good, maybe there’s more to life than you and your stupid face witch I want to kick. I just wanted you to know that when I’m gone, my life will be on your concious and you’ll know exactly why. But the thing is, I’m not going to wait any longer, no longer than a year, so I have about 3 months to decide. I probuably won’t post here ever again so all of you have a good life, or at least have a good time ti’ll you end it.
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Sorry to hear this. How old are you?
why commit suicide when you can report what he did? why leave someone you truely love so dearly? Okay i know he ruin your life a little but that shouldnt stop you. Really? Just try to get through this. You have friends that would support you and a loving boyfriend :L
You should have reported those things when they happened. To do so now would be really difficult to prove, I mean there is no “rape” kit evidence.
Sorry this happened to you.
I’m 14. I don’t know if I want to report this because I don’t really want to let my parents know I was raped, and I don’t want him to get in serious trouble ( I really don’t know why ) and my friends don’t know this, only my 2 best friends and one of them was with me when this happened and she just keeps telling me I always wanted it, and my other best friend.. He just doesn’t understand. I was thinking a lot about suicide the first 7-8 months after this but now I’m not so sure, there’s more to life than this asshole and I’m constantly trying to forget him and it’s been working for some time now, but the thing is, that he goes to school with me, but he moved to another country this summer but he’ll be back in 10th grade and I just don’t know if I can deal with his face every day..
your story makes me cry i’m really sorry cant imagine what thats like but from what i’ve read you seem like a very strong person and i know you wouldn’t want to deal with seeing him everyday but i think you could
Well, it’s been tough but I try to stay strong, and I really hope I’ll ve able to deal with it , at least i get another year to recover..
Destroyed….
It may be a little late but you need to let someone know.
He raped and abused you.
And the thing is he might try to terrorize you some.
A counselor, therapist, some male friends who could give him a late night beating.
He is one of the types that deserves to go to jail and be on the receiving end of what he did.
That just is not right. Now you have to deal with that in your heart and soul for a long time to come.
In your case I say talk to someone and get help.
destroyed-I am so sorry this happened to you. A VERY similar thing happened to me when i was 18. I never reported it because I was drunk. Also, my best friend was passed out in the room when it happened, but she wouldn’t testify because she was dating the assholes roommate. Good friend, huh? Have you had a history of suicidal thoughts before this happened? If the suicidal thoughts are directly related to this event, then PLEASE do not act on your thoughts , at least not yet. I had horrible flashbacks and nightmares for quite some time after the event. I was in therapy at the time, so I was able to talk through it with a very loving, caring therapist. Is going to a therapist an option for you? I promise that though time doesn’t heal all wounds, it can certainly dull the pain. After a year or so, I felt much better. Maybe it was a little longer; I can’t remember. I hope you don’t give up and let that bastard win! Because you know what? Monsters that rape girls don’t have a conscious, so you won’t be on his if you die. He might even get enjoyment from the news of your death. I can hear that you are a fighter, and I wish you the very best.
I don’t know what sort of relationshiP you have with your parents. If it is a good one, You should tell them what happened. I am sure it would be the best thing to do. They might be able to help. If I knew this jerk he would be spending the next Six months in hospital. What happened to you is nothing for you to be ashamed of. Once people know this guy should be on the sex offenders register no one is going to want to know him. Report him to the police. It’s the best way to put it behind you and for justice to be done. Go with your mum.
Your death won’t be a revenge to him. You’re hurting yourself most of all, and ever since this happened you’ve been hurting yourself. Stop the pain. Go get professional help; At least TRY, please. You’d be surprised. But don’t do this. He’s caused you pain, and, instead of continuing to hurt yourself, threatening suicide like this, and leaving the things in life that can make you happy please report him, make sure he can’t do this to anyone else. A better revenge than punishing yourself in this way would be to punish him.
My parents would overreact and never let me out of the house again, and i don’t really see the option for a therapist, if they start beeing overprotective and i can’t go out to see my friends (who are keeping the life in me) i don’t see any point of this life anymore. I think heaven or wherever we go would be better. And i just can’t report this, he’s just a kid, he has his whole life left and wether he has a concius or not he should be able to live it. My boyfriend and a few of his friends were gonna beat him up when he came back but just yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me and just as i feared, he was just using me, i don’t know if i can do this anymore.. My medication is not helping and i’m afraid to tell my parents that the depression has become worse, then they’ll ask why and i just can’t…. But as i said i don’t have the guts to do it so i’ll just wait till i’m 18 and move out and then see how things go…