okay so im gonna make this story short, i haven’t been on here in a while and this girl that i love more then anything is telling me to leave her alone, that im a stalker, and that im harrasing her.. three things i don’t know why shes telling me. ok so the leave her a lone part she won’t even talk to me about it.. she just threatens me with the cops.? the stalker part ok ive known her for 4 years and we used to talk everyday on the phone so now when i start talking to her she calls me a stalker… the harrassing part okay this is the most confusing one ive been telling her how i feel about her and that im in love with her. i want her back in my life.. im going to leave her a lone, already know what to do. but the fact that im being blamed for something she wont talk to me about or that i didn’t do.. cause someone left her number on this website and she thought it was me.. it wasn’t of course.. idk what to do, i still love her a lot and i care about her. but she’s never going to talk to me again.. for something i didn’t do. that really hurts and it’s unfair for me. my life is ruined cause she’s the only thing that makes it better. alright question: if someone told you to leave them alone for good and you were deeply in love with them. would you keep talking to them and go after them. or would you really leave them a lone and watch something that makes your life great disseapear.?
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I am going through something similar. My ex girlfriend, who I love more than life itself keeps telling me to stay out of her life. That she can’t stand the sight of me anymore. There isn’t much you can do but respect her wishes and hope they start missing you too.
If you told someone to leave you alone and not contact you, you’d expect them to respect your wishes. Love ain’t love unless it’s going both ways…sucks I know but why would you want to be with someone who really doesn’t want to be with you. If I liked someone and they said no go, I say okay, cause I got me…I decide what makes me happy and no one person has that power to make me unhappy unless I decide they have that power.
Check in with your self esteem. It’s not a criticism, it’s a self preservation tip for you…relationships fall apart all the time, when you learn to bob and weave with that and keep things in perspective you’ll learn something that’s probably meant to give you some gumption and strength. Good luck! Btw, took me a year to get over my first gf..it’s a challenge sometimes…
that’s the thing she did want to be with me and she told me she was in love with me but it all of sudden just happened to where she hates me. i don’t get how you could go from in love to someone to telling them to leave you a lone. i am leaving her a lone but just the fact that she told me she wanted a family with me and everything then says she doesn’t love me anymore is the most fucked up thing you can do to a person..