I’m Justinee. I’m fourteen and I found out I’m pregnant. I have no support from family. I only have support from ONE of my friends. The father wants nothing to do with me and denies it all. I’m so alone. The support I have can’t compare to having Josh(my baby daddy) there for me. I’m so stressed out and that’s bad for the baby. I have moments when I want to get an abortion and pretend like it never happened. 🙁 I need him there for the baby. I need help to get him back. I’m so alone.
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hi Justine. i know this is really scary,but take a deep breath,okay? you aren’t alone there are many people who can help. how far along are you? have you gone to the doctor’s yet?
I’m almost two months. And yes. My parents choose not to do anything for me.
How about social services where you live, is there anyone there who can help you out?
what about at school? is there a counselor you could speak with? someone who could help you find the resources you need?your family might not be there,but there are other people who will help you.
I take counseling at school. Hey help me out with money and everything but it still doesn’t help. Evrything still seems so empty.
have you talked to anyone about what you are going to do? i know this must be really really scary,i know a girl who had a baby when i was in highschool. it’s important that you know that you aren’t alone,there are many girls who have gone through this too.
you are going to be okay.:)
Well thank you. I just hope the father oft kid would at least try to understand and I feel like I can’t do anything about it.
🙁 it’s terrible when people that you thought were there for you let you down. but you are stronger than you know.i wouldn’t tell you that if it wasn’t true. i found strength in myself when i thought there was no way i could go on. you can do this. 🙂 whatever you decide. i’m glad you are in counseling though,is it helping? have you made any plans?
Im not so sure yet. It’s still so hard. But I will get through this I guess.
i know you can. you have time-but it’s really important that you talk to a counselor and a doctor okay?
your in my prayers. 🙂
Thank you. That honestly means a lot.
Just don’t give up. you are going to meet great people in your life,and there will be other guys who will stick by you too. there is so many great things ahead for you! 🙂
It’s just hard because I’m barley a freshmen and my baby daddy is getting me kicked out of my school because since he denies everything and I have no proof it’s his baby, the principal considers is some type of sexual harassment. I’m kinda being forced to leave the school but that’s where I got all my support and leaving would be more stressful.
I can’t believe that they would do something like that! idk too much about paternity tests,is it possible to have one before the baby is born?
I’m not sure. That would be helpful but I’m already considered not part of that scho and I don’t know if I will be able to go back.
are you attending a different school?
I just want you to know that you can get through this. it’s not worth your life,okay? you sound like a really sweet girl,and this is definitely not the first time this has happened. you can reach out to other girls who have gone through the same thing and they can give you advice. that’s why i thought talking to a school counselor would help,i thought that they could provide you with resources. they have organizations and nonprofits that can help.if you are worried about a place to live,i believe they have homes for pregnant teens. hang in there hon.
Thank you(: