you know people around you don’t like you and don’t give a crap about you?
I could ditch them, but then I’d be alone, and with nothing to do, I’d stay home and mope even more and be more depressed.
Easy to say just make new friends. Â But I haven’t made a real “friend” in years. Â I just don’t understand why I can’t connect with people (or why people can’t connect to me), and why people don’t like me. Â How can I get people to like me? Â Like for real?
I sort of have people to hang out with sometimes, but it’s not real.
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I find hanging out with friends while I am depressed not only exhausting and difficult but very risky. I hide away from people when I am in this state cause I don’t want them to get tired of me and lose them. It’s been 6 months since I totally disappeared from Facebook and broke contact with almost everyone I knew. If and when I get better I would restart coming out of the cave but being always a problem and crying and complaining to them will just push them away.
I agree with the comment above and I habe the same problem connecting with people or old friends cause not everyone will understand the state of mind you are in when you deal with depression, but there are some people out there that will. and having friends like that can make all there difference. there is people out there like myself you ubderstand and care. its not impossible to dind friends like that. keep looking <3
Personally I don’t think friends can help. I stopped hanging out with fiends my freshmen year in highschool. I’m alone all the time which makes me so much more depressed but I rather be depressed than be around people who really don’t give a shit.
We are here Kimm and I am glad you’re online.
I honestly don’t know how i am ever gonna get better I get more hopeless and each year passes by my self esteem is killing me
@Kimmm, I know the feeling. I have gotten better before but I always end up falling back into this dark hole over and over again. Low self-esteem is the biggest most ruthless monster out there.
Wow I know exactly how you feel about the friend thing. And the whole self esteem stuff. We just have to be stronger and fight our negative thoughts. I know it’s hard, I really do. 🙁 but I wish you the best !
God you guys made me just burst into tears /: it sucks so bad self esteem is the hardest battle to fight out there. It’s hard. I used to be such a strong chick but now I’m just a complete fuck up
And I totally relate to your story I’m in the same boat it sucks. But you will find at least one person in life who at least seems to care a little bit. I hope.
I have a low-self esteem. Right now, it almost seems impossible for me to improve it.
Used to have “friends” but I cut off all the friendships I had. I isolated myself and now I’m alone. I don’t know if I could ever change things…right now, it feels like this is going to last forever.