Tonight I just felt worse than ever. I just want it to be over. I can’t stand it anymore. The only reason I’m not killing myself is because I don’t want to cause pain to others that care about me. I would hate for my parents to suffer just so that I can be happy. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Why can’t I just be happy and get on with my life?
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I have the similar issue trying to find that happiness we all seek. At one point in my life I realized that my desire wanting to be happy led to my own demise. So for a couple of months I blocked all those feelings and just took what life is in front of me and miraculously it worked. Now that the time has passed so quick I suddenly fell again to the thoughts of my desires without noticing that it was leading me back to a depression. I just wanted to be happy too unfortunately I ended up in a mental hopital and was on medications. Tonight I found myself talking to myself, asking why everything is going in the wrong path. Then I felt soothing talking to myself by analyzing all the events that have occurred and thinking a solutions to maybe fix it before its really too late. I hope you find a way to your question. I can never be in your shoes. Tonight I was thinking of what should I write on my suicide note and finding ways how I can kill myself even though I own a rifle, in the process I found this website. While reading some of the post in here I noticed that we are not alone in this struggle. Maybe my thoughts of killing myself will be back stronger later and its a feeling of helplessness. Its good to hear that you still have reasons to not do it, my advice is keep going and carefully make choices along the way so you don’t fall back like where I am at right now.
Being happy and getting on with life… is surprisingly hard… Isn’t it? Don’t try and rush yourself. I think it’s impossible to go from suicidal to happy fast unfortunately…
You’re always, only ever dealing with your own thoughts…as is everyone. You will think more clearly when you take everyone else out of the equation as you’re only left with you. When you feel you’re doing what is best for you…you will be doing what is best for all. We often think for too many others or how others will feel. We really can only be one person, and it is best when we operate in this way and leave the shame, and fear out of it.
Thanks for your advice everyone. Your right about it taking a while to get happy again. I used to be really depressed but I managed to get out of it, well at least I thought. It started coming back again in small doses. The thoughts would pop up in my head and make me wonder. Now its kind of bad again. I’m trying so hard not to cut myself again because I don’t want the people close to me to know that I’m suffering. I don’t want them to feel like they need to fix me, I don’t want them to feel as if I’m weak either. I think this is something I need to deal with on my own and I’m not sure if it will ever go away but I’ll just have to deal with it. For all we know this could be our only chance at life. I guess we should try make the most of it. That thought is what keeps me getting out of bed in the morning.