There are those that you trust & those that you enjoy spending time with right?
My friend is leaving the country for a long time. Happy for him, better life where his going anyways! I’ve helped him out when he had his huuuuge fallout with his ex, I was the “shoulder to cry on” friend. He was aaalways calling me his bestfriend, being appreciative about my existence and shared with me everything he thought I should know. ha sooo I could say I was pretty much his little treasure box, we were good friends! I didn’t see him more or less than a friend, sooo he is leaving today. & nooo I’m not at the airport, very sad I know!
Only because when I needed him the most (thing is he didn’t know much bout what I was going through until I told him), he thought I was being dramatic. We had planned to have our last hangout session 2 days ago, he didn’t turn up; nor did he even txt. After that day I thought to myself, when I lose this friendship; BESTFRIENDS is an alienated word in my dictionary.
So to be honest I didn’t think twice about whether I should go to the airport, because every time he needed me I was there. This time eergh, idk his new girlfriend is enough. HA
there’s a big difference between helping with a bad breakup and dealing with suicidal thoughts. breakups are considered normal and fixable while suicidal thoughts are difficult to understand or diminish. few people want to help with our kinds of problems
yeah well he was pretty suicidal about his break up, no lies. but the fact that I didn’t mention anything suicidal about my situation & negatively thinking about some things; he was no help. but yes thats true there are only a few people who would help.. this case he wasn’t one of them =\
I’m sorry that sucks.
hha no problemo! Just a post to get it off my chest yeh(:
@matsu: but you were, which made you worthy of being his bestfriend. You were willing to help him through his darkest hour, but if he couldn’t listen to you, maybe he doesn’t understand or isn’t worthy of being YOUR bestfriend. why’d he think you were being dramatic?
they should put up a love button somewhere around here. If I knew what his reasons were for being dramatic I would’ve posted that up, unfortunately I don’t! I guess coz he’s ‘happy’ now, that whatever happened like 3 months ago was NOTHING. Oh golly he is definitely not worth being my bestfriend! Oh well, good riddance to him(: (not in a cruel way tho) lol