I found out that my ex and his “current” girlfriend broke up last night. my ex told me that he was going to do anything and everything to get her back. I thought to myself.. this could be my chance to get him back.. to make him mine again.. for us to have another chance to be together and be happy. Then i realized how much he cares about her. that he wants to be with her. (she broke up with him for “being too clingy, and not treating her good”) (They also share their 4th block class, which is how they met in the first place)
I was talking to a friend and i told her how much i love him.. how much i just want him to be happy and for him to have the best. So. I made a decision. I waited for his now exgirlfriend outside her classroom so i could talk to her.. (in previous encounters i screamed at her and threatened to kick her ass btw) i wanted to talk to her about what an amazing guy she has and that she should give him another chance and try to make things better.. (more details but dont feel like writing ALL of that) The problem was that they walked up to class together.. My ex told me to go away and not make things worse, and that his “ex”girlfriend was scared of me.. i told him i just wanted to talk to her.. he tried to make me leave.. i went into the class room and went over to her and i first apologized for my freak out on her before.. and that i was just really sorry.. i tried to tell her about how amazing her boyfriend was, and that she shouldnt break up with him over something stupid.. that hes an amazing person and that i know how upset he is about them breaking up.. he wasnt that upset when we broke up.. and we had been together for a year and a half…
She accepted my apology and my ex started to get red in the face from trying not to cry… i texted him saying i was sorry if i made things worse, that i only wanted to help and have him be happy.. i have gotten no response, which is what i expected..
Just affraid that i made things worse between Him and I, and that i may have ruined his potential happiness with her.. i wanted to talk to her more and tell her more things, but i wasnt able to. Time ran out and he was sitting there listening so i couldnt say what i needed to… i want to tell her.. i think i should.. but im scared ill fuck shit up even more…
I dont like her.. i really dont.. but i want HIS happiness, and if she makes him happy.. then i guess i should do everything i can to make HIM happy, and get him what HE wants..
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Sometimes, it’s wiser not to intervene…
yeah i guess so.. i just couldnt help myself..
Perhaps the next time you think you can’t help yourself… you should realise that it’ll be easier to become friends again with your ex when things have cooled down.
it is clear that he wants space right now
GO AHEAD AND HATE ME GIRL! but you are obbsesed with him!which is ok but your going to drive him away i believe he needs his space and she is the other woman you don’t want to get blame for them breaking up because he might not forgive you and trhink your trouble also she doesn’t want him! let it go it’s natural course if you say in the back ground he will come running to you for comfort but thats a rebound! you will get your heart busted again becareful,trust me don’t get excited i promise someday a un supecting Abselom victim will craw into your web again and you can suck the life out of him! not meant in a dirty way!haha easy girl easy………………. stay cool……….
Yeah I had an epiphany yesturday and i will post about it later cause I am too sleep to do so now