Can’t Stop Missing You

I’m sorry your experiencing such feelings of loss, jcw. As you can tell, this may not be the most supportive place for your situation. You’re welcome to post wherever you like, but I looked up a site for people who actually know what you’re going through – women who have experienced the trauma of abortion. You’re not alone, and others who have been through this may be able to provide a level of understanding that the denizens of this site lack due to age and experience.

Here’s a message board for abortion survivors. Supposedly it’s neutral with no religious agenda. It’s not pro life or pro choice, it’s simply there for survivors to receive support. It has message boards similar to this site plus it looks like it has chat rooms.

http://www.afterabortion.com/

Feel free to use it or not use it. Either way I hope you receive support from somewhere. There’s a lot to process after an abortion, and it’s not as cut and dry as people make it out to be. The feelings of loss, grief, and guilt are normal. I don’t judge you, I just want you to get the help you need. Good luck.