life seem to come to a stand still, do not know where to go, what to do, my husband cheated me for a girl, i tried to live with him,13 long years  waited and waited but no he has built a strong relationship with her, a friend approached me promised me to be a good friend but got into a relation, i thought my husband would feel jealous and would be by my side but no he and his girl friend has taken photos in private. my parents have brought me up with good habits, i somehow got over the relation becoz it didnt help my hubby realize my anguise but he has taken an advantage o fthe situation. one side the so called friends torture and other side my husbands torture .i am not looked upon as a normal person, people talk rot behind me  and making me difficult to live, i cannot even cry nor die nor live. myparents will die if they know i lost my character.i lost my character for someone who does not love me for someone who never treated me as a wife. i wish to die die such that no one should know i have committed suicide a natural death. plz help me and there is no future
ashamed shunnedbut still got to live pains day and night plz help me
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I will try to help you if I can. I’m not sure what the rules are here but you can write me at whisper483 at hushmail (dot) com
I’ve been through hell much of my life and every time I think I have one problem solved another pops up. People say ‘that’s life’ but seriously, how much can one person take? My wife abandoned me after a terrible surgery. It has taken me 2 years just to walk again. And the reasons she left had to do with some really screwed up things about her that she had been hiding for years, and which she knew I wouldn’t put up with.
Blah, blah blah, that isn’t all of it. My brother hung himself in 2010 and that haunts my dreams almost every night. Anyway, I’m not writing to talk about my problems, just to tell you that this complete stranger knows a thing or two about bad relationships, depression and suicide, and I used to be someone everyone brought their problems to because I was good with answers, until I ran away from them (friends). Now I’m back, and happy to help you, if I can, or even if you just need someone to talk with. either way I will tell you there are better options than suicide, even at the worst of times. I am finally convinced that the only good reason to give up is when our health is gone and physical pain is too great. Any other reason, can be overcome with time, patience and trying to move forward even if it’s just a little at a time.
Happy to talk if you’d like. 🙂
@whisper
I love how you think, so positive inspite the fact life was a ***** to you. I can relate to that.
So happy to “meet” you 🙂
Happy to meet you too smusmu…and hoping to help devi smile? 🙂