I’m a panromantic homosexual, and my girlfriend knows I’ve suffered with self harm. She knows I still do and that it’s hard breaking the habit, and she’s there when I need to talk. Tonight I told her if I had never met her I would have left and that I probably still wouldn’t be alive today. We have a long distance relationship, and I can’t see her all the time, so I feel alone. Tonight though, we were on videochat and I told her about all of it. Her first words were ‘Oh my God’, and then she started crying. She talked to me, and although I’m not fixed, I feel much better…
Sometimes talking it out with a loved one really does help. I never thought so before this, but, I think now I’m ready to get better.
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Thats the difference between a real lady,and what I had.
You are fortunate she has feelings for you, cares for you, is willing to talk to you, help you.
What I got from my 14 years of marriage to my pathetic wife was “I’m only here visiting you in the hospital because your mom can’t drive”.
And I can list more.
Be glad you have her as you do.
Why were you married to her, then, if she hurt you so?
is that question for me?