I fit in nowhere, not even here.
I will never have meaningful relationships, or maybe even a half-decent career or job.
A lot of people seem to like me, but nobody loves me. Is it because I’m ugly? Stupid? Indecisive? Depressed? It’s probably all those things. I am truly forever alone, incapable of forming bonds or living a happy and meaningful life. I’m useless.
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I think you are overreacting a bit.
Don’t listen to the other person commenting here saying you’re overreacting. They don’t know what you’re going through, and neither do I. Which is why I want to ask you:
Why do you think these things?
Why do you think you’ll never have a meaningful relationship, or a decent career?
And, do you think you’re ugly? Stupid? Indecisive, and depressed? Useless?
You don’t have to answer that last thing if you don’t want. Because even not knowing you, I can answer it for you. You’re not useless. Nobody is. You mean something to somebody. And if all else fails, if everyone you know leaves you behind and moves on, or you just generally lose everyone you have or had… you still have me.
I may be a faceless, nameless person on a computer screen, but I’m here for you if you want to talk about anything. I’m not sure if there’s a private messaging system on this website, I’m rather new here. But if not, and you want to talk alone, I can give you either my skype or facebook account. And I’ll add you and talk to you whenever you want if you need someone 😛
Onegundone, I sincerely hope I helped you yesterday when we conversed and I wish you the best. But your ill treatment of other users on this forum is unhelpful and frankly disgusting.
At this moment you are behaving no better than the person we spoke of who caused me so much grief. Have some compassion, man.
You are still a worthy person in my eyes.
I am leaving this website. Good bye.
no, dont leave, i feel its my fault because i posted that one dumb thing. and then there was an arguement in the comments
Edit: caused YOU so much grief.
I would love to know why it tells me my comments are awaiting moderation for so long. Question: can you guys see my other, longer comment on this thread?
I could have written this. *hugs*
If I say “I will never have [this or that]” or “no one will ever love me” etc. my therapist patiently says “you don’t know that” or “you FEEL that way but that doesn’t make it true.” I hear her, but I can’t think that way. It’s easier to deal with absolutes. Hope is a liar.
So… you’re not alone in that, at least?
Does every post have to turn into an argument about nothing? We should talk about the post that naww shared with us.
Anyway, onto my comment about the post:
I feel the exact same way. I get along with everybody, have almost no enemies, but I feel as though I’ll never truly be loved. I moved to a new state a couple years back, I thought it might help, but it didn’t. I wish I had good advice to give, but I don’t. Sorry.
Hey, it seems you and I feel a lot of the same feelings. It is pretty miserable. You can email me if you want: brl.cents@gmail.com