Last weekend my family and I went to visit my grandma at hometown. I saw all of my cousins who I haven’t seen for a year or more than we greeted each other but one of my cousins, started to show signs that he maybe is interested in me?
I just want to know if it’s just family love or that he likes me. When I was eating and talking to my mom and sister, and he was on the other side of the room talking to his mom. I occasionally would look to direction he was in and he would be looking at me. A while later, me and five of my other cousins(including him) were watching a movie. I sat on the floor and he sat in the chair, throughout the movie I would turn to look and chat with my little cousin(who was sitting next to him) and he would be staring at me, then he would smile.
The first time I noticed it, I thought there was something on my face or that he was just looking behind me…but the more and more I was around him, the more I realized he was indeed staring at me. I wish I could have been able to read his thoughts, because every time I would look at him he wouldn’t look back…Â What was he thinking when he stared at me? Â Even my sister realized he was staring at me a lots too… -_-“
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Is this a first cousin – I.E. mom/dad’s brother/sister’s kid, or a more distant relative? I had a weird thing with one of my cousins when I was a teenager, but pretty much nothing at all came of it – I think we were both a little baffled about the whole situation. lol Also, is this something that you would actually be comfortable with, if he actually did think of you outside the normal family relationship category (if you know what I mean)?
He is my mom’s cousin, maybe he is cousin-uncle to me. But he is just 4 or 5 years older than me.
Yes, I know what you mean. Thanks for replaying
Is he from the backwoods of Kentucky or something? lol
When I was younger, my family actually discussed me and my distant cousin “getting together”, as we were close. I never felt comfortable with it, as I saw her as family. She was really pretty though. I never regretted not being with her romantically. She and I had a lot of fun together, nothing in appropriate though. She was like 16, I was 18.
No. he is a nice guy.
Thanks for replying
Mah great-great-grandpappy ol’ Jed Clampett woulda smacked ye upside yer shiny brain-box for askin’ such a question, boy. Only pols and skunks come from Kentucky.
I think y’all need ta change direction before yew make that “wrong turn.” Hellfire, I hope y’all don’t have feelings fo’ heem. Boy, I tell ya. This right hurr is a “mindfuck” of epeec propotions.
*clears throat*
But seriously, I think we require further Intel on the situation so we can better understand exactly what’s going on because right now, it’s pretty ominous.
Thanks for replying.
I was a little hesitant to comment here, but as per the norm for me, that only occurred after I had already posted something and was like, “Wait a second…. NO DON’T SUBMIT! …. Ah, well.”
Are you Muslim?
No, I’m not…
If he doesn’t know you very well, he may just be interested in knowing you better.
Thanks for replying.
He’s your second cousin, once removed.
In other words DANGER CLOSE. For the love of everything holy in this world, do not pursue a relationship with him.
Sorry for this post… & my silly questions…
Thanks to advise, Rare Echelon
@snowflake
I think your cheery personality deserves a lot more than this anyway. You’ll find someone out there, most likely when you least expect it. Till then, stay frosty, Miss Snowflake (damn, that’s awesome…) 🙂
@Rare Echelon: Good play of words, lol.
@snowflake: feel free to post any question you like, you are so cheerful and try to help often, so your questions are well received (and not all that weird, lol)… and i do think your cousin has an eye on you, but… don’t, for your own sake.
I dunno, second cousins, once removed… sounds like a gray area. If I swung that way and I had a relative in that order hitting on me (as I said – IF I liked that sort of thing in the first place), I can imagine that I might hit that. Depends on whether it’d feel creepy or not to even think about them that way.