I’ve been through this before. I thought I was done feeling like this. When I was in sixth grade, I stayed up late to slit my wrists as soon as I heard my parents’ bedroom door close. I cried myself to sleep each and every night. I had a boyfriend and I knew he loved me. Or as close as love got in sixth grade. He was going through the same thing. Except he had and addiction to drugs. Whenever he cut, Â I would Too. I wanted to feel his pain. Maybe I thought it would cut his pain in half. I don’t know.
I continued to cut through seventh grade. I attempted suicide 14 times. Things were looking bad. I knew I wouldn’t make it very long like this.
Then the summer of my seventh grade year, my mother decided to take me to a big water park. I wasn’t careful enough. She saw my cuts. She kept asking why and I didn’t know how to tell her that I had a friend who had died from depression. I refuse to say she killed herself. It wasnt her fault. It was depression’s fault.
Anyway, my mother told me that if I made any more cuts, I would be thrown into therapy. I don’t need therapy. I need a friend who will listen. Not a stranger who will pretend to understand.
I lost many of my friends. Not because they killed themselves but because I became so distant. They gave up on me. I almost did too.
My crush’s girlfriend (who is also one of my good friends) recently broke up with him. He has a history of cutting and he’s trying so hard not to cut right now. I’ve been trying to help but how can I help him if I can’t really help myself.
He needed me the other night. He texted me. I fell asleep. He was going to kill himself and I wasn’t there to tell him no. Thank god he didn’t but what if? I’ve already failed one person. How could I live with myself if two people died because of me? I hate myself. And no matter how many people ask me not to, I will cut.
im going into high school this year. People say freshman year is the worst. Maybe it’ll get bad enough that I’ll end it finally.
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For what it’s worth, freshman ear of high school is actually pretty fucking awesome. It was for me, anyway. I was a band geek through all of high school. College freshman year…is a whole different story. It’s sucking majorly so far. The advice I can give you is the advice I’m trying to give myself: make reality count, fuck fantasy, and just keep pushing.
Also, you can’t save everyone.
High school is nothing. Everyone tries to fit into their own little cliques, but as long as youre not an idiot youll be fine. As for the cutting, id cut that out. Then again whenever my friends found out in high school found out I cut they didnt seem to care too much. They probably thought I was being edgy. Youll soon find out that people are incredibly self absorbed. As long as youre not an idiot, youll be fine.