The longer I live, the more I can’t help but think about how everything has the same fate. There’s a beginning, middle and end. From a term in school, a job, relationship, trip to the doctor’s office and even life. Nothing is forever, but plenty of things appear like they should last that long.
Life is composed of all these short lived events. One after another. They all bring different emotions. I want to know which ones are the best experiences that make you want to hang on for another chapter of life?,
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Best experiences that make me want to hang on? Definitely career. Even though it’s aggravating, something within me won’t give up on chasing my career goals.
Relationship? Never been in one, but I’ve done a lot of “seeing” guys. That shit’s overrated… or I could just be bitter LOL
Hurricanes, tornadoes, earthquakes, and plagues, mostly. Oh, and fuck yeah, wild land fires. Nothin’ like walking into a field surrounded by pillars of flame eating everything in sight.
Are you a chick?
@ArtinHeaven, are you a chick?
Lol No.
I didn’t think so.
I don’t know if it’s just my personality or a bipolar trait, but I prefer not to get too personal or close to anyone. I’ve tried it and ITS just don’t really have it in me.
Definitely makes the idea of an afterlife a turn off due to not wanting to be bothered by others.
I was the same way growing up, but things changed when I started “dating”, but I learned quickly and built those defenses back up after being hurt constantly.
But as distant and reserved as I can be, people tend to gravitate towards me wtihout much effort on my part. It’s a blessing and a curse.
My best moments was when i was with my ex gf, how much we loved each other when we first got together. it was the best time of my life.
Does she have a new bf now?
@Anxiousguy How long were you two together?
The simple idea of acquiring personal and financial autonomy is a prospect that has compelled me to keep living day by day. My maxim is taking things slow, whether it be a circumstance, situation, relationship etc. many people impulsively jump ahead and into their expectations and anticipations of the future rather than focusing on the present, which is understandable given that the future’s ambiguity is addicting to romanticize. Time isn’t going anywhere, slow down, don’t wait for the future, take steps in the present to ameliorate your position in a preemptive regard. Zen, mindfulness, all that jazz, just like live in the present, man
we were together for 3 years, she dumped me 1 month ago..
no she does not have a new bf, but she has cut off all contact and communications with me.
it’s because i am unable to find a job, it’s all because of me! FML.. i was her first and she was my first…
This is the perfect time to reinvent yourself. Time to make a plan for a career that will land you a new girl that will make your first girl jealous.
@anxiousguy My thing is if they cut you off then the best thing to do is to take control of the one thing you always had, have and will have….yourself. It’s hard to tell someone to just move on because I know it’s not that simple, but at some point you have to ask yourself who you’re living for. Because if you spend all your time worried about them and they don’t give a fuck about you, then damn…usually they’re the happy ones, not you.
@lorax
we have met the enemy…and he is us
Thank you guys, the hardest thing to do is to reinvent myself, sometimes i don’t even feel like getting out of bed, that’s how bad it is for me. my anxiety makes it hard to do anything. even eating at a Restaurant, i feel like everyone is judging me badly, taking a walk outside i feel like someone will attack me.. when i’m not home i feel anxious, like i can’t wait to get home so bad.. what is wrong with me??