OMG, i joined this site 2 years ago, and at first everyone was so supportive and caring and month by month everyone is becoming judgmental the amount of judgment ive gotten in two days from people on here is insane. i post a picture of myself. i give out my number for people to contact me. WHY IS IT THAT BIG OF A DEAL!? i see others on here do it to. so why are we attacking me?!? what is so special about me that i dont have the right to post what others do. SORRY. im going to post what i damn well please you guys can gladly get the fuck over it. k.
share your suicide story
Report Post
Please log in to report posts
19 comments
cat fight anyone?
-_- really..
It’s funny, I post a picture of myself here and no one gives me stick. Suddenly, a teenage girl puts her picture up and you’re looking for dates and stuff? Don’t read too much into it. It’s mighty brave for anyone to put their mug up on a suicide website of all places, so we’ll done on that. A lot can change in a place like this within two years (dat layout tho…) so it shouldn’t come as a surprise that the people you once knew would’ve bugged out as well.
Like I said, don’t read too much into it. To each his own.
thanks @Shephard(:
I’d say it’s the usual procedure when a beautiful girl posts a picture somewhere and claims being called ugly or having self steem issues. The first thing that comes to people’s mind is “she’s looking for attention”, but yeah, that’s not always the case. My exgf suffered from the same thing and she was far from ugly, and i have to admit this, i was scared when i saw your picture because you are almost a carbon copy of her, except with lighter hair. I had a huge WTF moment there haha.
I have to say she did do it for attention tho (as in, she knew she was beautiful because she got compliments from guys on a daily basis) so i kinda see why people would believe that.
In the end if you know your issues are real and you are not that kind of person don’t pay much attention to the comments, but as i said, it’s the expected “behaviour” what got people to comment that on the first place.
@M- i can see where people are coming from haha i know several girls who did this. but i think it would take a really illogical person to go on a site for suicidal people and post pictures for the attention. im not like that. ive dealt with several issues on appearance. and just cause i have self image problems doesnt mean i have issues with postin pictures i dont care what people have to say bout my appearance. i judge myself enough, i posted this picture in a way to show people with image issues that everyone is strong. 2 years ago i posted a pic on here when i was at my worst. and im still here, it was meant to show people that everything can get better. and everyone is strong enough to keep going.
As I’ve searched various topics, I’ve found older threads; and yes, things seemed to have changed, but I’m not sure whether they are worse. I just saw some stuff that I would have guessed would have been flagged (suicide techniques, suicide partners, etc.).
Remember, we can all be critical, and some of us may be on medication, going through drug withdrawals, be in chronic pain, or dealing with incredible anguish that varies from day to day.
My great cousin once said, “Remember when people are at their most unloveable, that’s when they need love the most.” It’s easy to be misunderstood. What someone might intend as a lighthearted joke can come across as an a-hole thing to say.
since when was SP a friendly and accepting place lol I’ve been here as long as you if more
i had a lot of great relationships (friendwise) with people on here from 2 years ago. now all i see is judgment
I think you’re right about the nature of the Internet, especially as a suicide discussion medium. It sucks, quite frankly. But it’s something to do while moping around depressed.
I don’t have any expectations of support, here or anywhere else. I won’t judge anyone here either.
I’m just a sicko a bit past dating age. Sometimes there’s interesting writing here. May all the best luck on these green acres come to you in time and all eternity.
No judgment here, but giving out your number might be unwise for safety reasons. People be creeps. The pic thing? Yeah, everyone seems to do that here, so not sure why anyone would give you flack about that.
i know, im not entirely stupid. the number i give out isnt my real phone number its on a texting app.
Tell us about it.
No one actually said anything really nasty and no one told you to stop posting. I don’t give a fuck what you post, but I’m as free as you to comment what I feel on this site my words were not offensive it was just simply #2cents! And shit you took it for a whole dollar! Lol…..
the fact that people think its for attention is what throws me off. like damn. and that comment right. there. just stop and grow up.
Do what you gotta do. I thank you and admire your will to reach out to people. Don’t mind the judgements of others, all their negativity is irrelevant and is beneficial to no one. Just be careful and keep your head high.
thank you <3
I think you deserve all the support and care you can find in the environment around you. I’m not very bullish on prospects for getting it on the Internet from strangers scattered all over our watery globe in the sky. I suspect it’s more likely to come from people you know.
I think it’s fine if you want to share thoughts here. They become visible to anyone in the world if you do, though, which may be good or bad, depending. More so-called “normal” folks who don’t contemplate suicide do need to hear stories from those of us who do think about self-destruction. I guess that’s why I started writing here recently.
I don’t know if anyone’s looking for bods here; I imagine some people look everywhere for that. I’m no longer in the dating or friends scene, so I’m not up on it. But it was a potentially dangerous game in the pre-computer era and I assume it still is. Guard your info like the Lorax says.
Really, best of luck to you.
lol you told soul sister to grow up when you exhibits characteristics that are the definitives of immature. over reacting to opinions that contradict your own, being naive to the fact that this is a public forum so of course there is going to be judgment regardless of what type of forum it is, and immature ways of expressing and addressing your issue with the comments.