So check this out..
When my ex left me, I was in pretty poor shape, still kinda am. Long story short..my neighbor had just broke up with his lady an she came to me crying about everything. At the time I felt like I couldn’t relate more with her and what she was going through at that time. I kinda thought we would be able to help each other through this. We exchanged numbers and all. Well I’ve text her back an forth here and there. The last text I sent was inviting her to breakfast, I just wanted to talk and get to know each other to help with the distraction, that’s all. I had listened to her problems and I cared so why not be friends right?
Well she never responded back to my invitation and it’s been over a week. But last night as I was falling asleep, I got a text from her saying.. “Is he seeing another woman?”
She was just using me to spy on her ex!! I was disgusted to the fullest! I told her he wasn’t my concern and to move on.
The fucking nerve of people!
She could care less about what I was going through and only cared bout her own sorry selfish crazy infatuation with this guy.
I hope he is seeing a good girl now and I hope that dude is happier than ever!! Ha!! lol
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yeah… you gotta give people time to get over stuff, otherwise you’re pretty much playing with fire.
Well I wasn’t trying to get with her so there shouldn’t be any “fire”. The whole point, or at least her whole point at the time was that she didn’t have anyone to talk to. I didn’t know she was straight full of BS trying to get me to dance a dance. But that’s why I don’t trust anyone in the first place. She just seemed so sad at the time I guess it was just a manipulation attempt. Kinda crafty..but scary at the same time
We humans are narcissistic by nature. It’s hard-wired right into our twisted ladder – our DNA. And you are no exception yourself.
Your story doesn’t surprise me in the slightest, and I’ve come to learn in my thirty years on this planet thus far that avoidance of others is what works best for me. I prefer being alone and definitely find the most peace in solitude.
I love being alone too, but it gets lonely…it’s an eternal paradox for me at least, I envy you Resitay if you are able to transcend the loneliness.