So today my cousin told me that my mentor told her dad ALL the things I told her, IN CONFIDENCE. So that includes me taking pain pills, me cutting myself, me being molested when I was little. All the stuff that’s going on in my home life. She had no right! I am so sad/angry/upset, I don’t know what to feel right now. I told her I had trust issues because other teachers/mentors have betrayed me in the past, and she told me it was between me and her. And then she does this! And what makes it worse was I saw her today and she came up to me and hugged me and told me she loved me and kissed my head. And then she betrays me.
I don’t know I really need advice right now. I don’t know what to think or feel. I’m not suppose to know Mrs. S told her dad, it was “confidential”
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I would forgive her. She was only looking out for you. Plus, you’ll have fewer secrets and less pretending to do.
As much as betrayal hurts, maybe your Dad needed to know? Maybe now that he knows he can help. Try not to hold it against her. Tell her how you feel and let her explain why she did it. That might help