Nothing that out of the usual I guess, but today I swear to god was the worst I’ve had in a long fuckin’ while. If you are a parent and think it’s okay to tell your kid who they can and cannot date and how to live their life, then fuck you. Apparently my mother thinks it’s okay to boss me around and bash my decisions in life. WELL FUCK THAT. FUCK HER. FUCK EVERYTHING. If I really wanna smoke, then I’ll fuckin’ smoke. If I wanna date him or her, then I’ll fuckin’ date him or her. YOU WILL NOT TELL ME HOW TO LIVE MY FUCKIN’ LIFE. YOU SHOULDN’T MAKE YOU CHILD FEEL LIKE A PIECE OF SHIT JUST BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS MADE YOU FEEL THAT WAY AS A CHILD. AND YES I WILL BE FUCKIN’ DISRESPECTFUL. WHO GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TELL ME I CAN DO SOMETHING THEN TAKE IT AWAY. WHO THE HELL MADE YOU KING OF THE GODDAMN WORLD. FUCK YOU. PLEASE I SWEAR TO GOD, MY MOM CAN GO TO HELL. CAUSE THAT’S WHAT SHE’S MAKING MY LIFE. A LIVING FUCKING HELL. I MEAN HONESTLY IF YOU THINK IT’S EVER, AND I MEAN FUCKING EVER, OKAY TO BASH YOUR CHILD OR THEIR LIFE CHOICES, THEN I HIGHLY ADVISE YOU TO GET THE HELL OUT OF MY LIFE. CAUSE I PROBABLY HATE YOU. I HATE MY LIFE, I HATE MY MOM, I HATE MY DAD, I HATE MYSELF. I REALLY JUST NEED TO FUCKING DIE. UGH. FUCK. I’M SO FUCKING PISSED RIGHT NOW…
~O.T.Q.~
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You are right, but you have to understand that as a parent she has to have a certain amount of control over your life, at least for a while.
She doesn’t have to effect who you choose to date, but smoking is pretty bad especially if you start at a young age.
Don’t let it get to you so badly, find ways to work with (or around) the things she wants, and hang in there.
If she insists badly against who you choose to date, you just have to keep it behind her back for a while (Just make sure you’re careful with who you choose to date anyway).
But about the smoking – it’s something i usually don’t recommend in any case.
Some parents overdo it but usually they don’t do these things because they’re trying to be mean. They just care about you and try to protect you.
About a year ago I got bronchitis during winter. I’ve never smoked except experimented when I was a teen and quit. Anyways, I was stupid about it-I was supposed to buy a very expensive inhaler with antibiotics to fix the issue. I had the money but I didn’t want to “waste” it on this drug. I took a pill antibiotic which helped but to this day my lungs have not been the same.
Now I cough when I talk, laugh, have other issues-it feels “normal” to me, but I remember, normal was not having to cough every time I did some activity that involved breathing.
Long story short, you sound really young and emotional. Try getting a job that you don’t like and doing it for years on end, just so you can make money to survive. You’ll learn that lesson eventually. Your mother cares about you that’s why she doesn’t want to you to smoke-I’d be the same way with my kids.
I’m not even a smoker and I got this fucking bronchitis and fucked up my lungs-because I was being a cheap idiot and not putting my health first. But it’s not the end of the world for me, I’m going back to the doctor and getting fixed, no matter what I have to pay…fortunately I do have some good savings.
I realize she’s also being overly oppressive with you…so I say date behind her back. But then maybe she has a point-maybe the person she doesn’t approve of you dating is a scumbag. I once hung around a troublemaker who I thought was really cool when I was a kid…the fucker got me in big trouble. Lesson learned.
You may think your parents are shit right now but just maybe they’re wiser than you and you should listen to them. Or maybe if you think you can handle all the rules, you should go live on your own, see how hard life really is then.
correction: “can’t handle the rules….”
My point about the bronchitis was that when you smoke you are deliberately putting pollutants into your lungs…it will destroy them. When you get similar health issues due to smoking then you’ll realize how foolish you were being.
I’m going to say the exact opposite of what they’re saying cause I actually was in a similar situation you’re actually right in certain ways my mom had nothing to do in my life then in my teen years she tried to tell me who I could date who I could hang out with an I told her fuck off I’ll do what I want some moms don’t understand that once they express no interest in being a part of your life they don’t get make choices anymore