Because they don’t make memes that say “I’m single because I’m holding out for a perfect 10 under 100 lbs with 0% body fat that’s super gorgeous that every man would die for and I want her to agree with me on everything and be open to swinging but otherwise never cheat on me.”
Yes he posted that meme and he posts tons of others like it.
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I am you. High 5.
People are single because they think they’re too good for other people, and won’t allow people near them unless they are the epitome of fit and sexy. Not every person can be model perfect, but that’s what they expect of their mates.
I’d like to put my own meme together. I’m single because I’m too fat and ugly for anyone to ever accept vs the “I’m single because I expect 100% physical perfection”.
It sounds like both of you could be single in part because of exaggerated expectations. He expects a certain type of person and you expect no one to accept you. You can’t expect anything from *him*, but that isn’t a reflection of anything wrong with you.
I’m too fat and hideous, trust me, there’s no one trying to get with me.
I saw your picture when you posted it once, and I can’t see your looks in any way holding you back from finding someone.
I’m single because I’d never expect any woman to tolerate me.
Man, i have to say this, i saw your picture when you posted it a while back (same as trix) and you don’t look bad at all (heterosexual guy here). This is going to sound awful on my part, but i’ve seen guys that are really bad looking (being objective here, i don’t care much about looks) with girls that could be considered top-tier. I’m nothing special myself and when i was still interested in dating (and when i was healthier) i dated girls that could be considered pretty much above average, and way out of my league, so i’d say that you’re only bringing yourself down by thinking that you’re bad looking.
Now excuse me while i go to the bathroom and puke for a couple of hours because of all the shallow bullshit i just wrote. My point about you not being bad looking still stands tho.
I’ve always been considered ugly, since before preschool. I’ve always been hated for my looks. How could I possibly not feel ugly when I’m single this long and can never ever get with any guy? Guys walk away from me. There’s no point in even trying. I was born with a face that looks like a boy and looks to gross for guys. The difference is that women will go for ANY guy, looks truly don’t matter. Girls just want to claim a man and say they have a man. That’s it. But yet, men only want the top-tier girls.
And, if you guys also remember when I gave out my instagram, you can see the guy there. I just wonder what you would think of his looks vs mine. I mean I know I’m way out of his league. I would think his league IS the top-tier girls he chases and wishes he had. Looks wise, he’s my idea of top-tier. And even though females just want to “land a man” to brag about having a man, there IS a tendency for females to favor the taller & bigger men.
I don’t remember seeing that guy. I think there are plenty of women who are just as shallow as that guy is (and plenty of guys who aren’t). For some people they’ll never realise it, and some people will have a wake up call eventually. However attractive that guy is to you, he doesn’t sound like a good person to be in a relationship with. There is a point in trying if it’s someone you want. Some people will be into your looks, and even people who aren’t could be once they get to know you. Attraction and relationships aren’t always based on first impressions and how attractive someone is on first sight.
I know my opinion means nothing because I’m not a real man but I have known plenty of real men over the years who were attracted to the super hot women but would never consider dating them because they always appeared too self obsessed. Most of these men would be happy to find a woman who was equally attracted to them as they were to her. You have an attraction to taller, bigger guys and that is what you find sexually arousing to you. That is your preference and you are entitled to it and you should not have to change to suit anyone another person’s opinion. Your dream guy obviously likes small, petite women from what you have said. So I don’t think anyone should be blaming him for having a type any more than someone should blame you for having a type. If he took advantage of the fact that you were attracted to him and slept with you and then just discarded you all the while knowing he had no real attraction to you and no intention of wanting a relationship with you, then obviously I would say he was an asshole. From what you have said, he has never done this and he seems to treat you like one of his friends and has told you that he does not share the same feelings that you have. These things don’t really make him a bad guy.
Disclaimer: Obviously with me not being a man and having zero relationship experience, you should probably just ignore any crap I write, but please know I never mean any offense to anyone.
I’m just going to kinda repeat what i already said before, but (damn i hate doing this) i’ve seen bad looking guys and you’re not bad looking. Average maybe, but bad looking? nope, at least not to the degree you think. It’s obvious that a life of thinking that you’re bad looking will make you believe that you actually are, but that doesn’t mean others will think the same.
I don’t know if you’ll believe this, but even if i’m hetero i’ve had lots of gay friends along the years (well, back when i still had friends anyway) and trust me, guys that were really ugly did get men (and some good looking ones too). Dating is just a freaking lottery regardless of your gender or sexual orientation, and that’s something that can’t be denied. I could even argue that i’m not that bad looking and every single guy i know has someone, but i’ve been alone for years, even if i’m polite, gentle, and respectful to girls. Not that i care that much anymore, but it kinda proves that luck is a major part of it.
Mike, sometimes you are the perfect outsider. We are inclusive here… militantly so. Your comments are always welcome. Please get off your low horse and join the discussions more often!
I support SeeSmith in this endeavor. Mike, never be afraid to share your insights with others, from what I’ve seen you have some interesting things to say, and I’d hate to think that because you aren’t confident that you can’t share them with us. And Disgusting, I don’t mean to be rude, but I doubt your name is as accurate as you claim it to be. I wish you all the help in the world with finding a man that fulfills your wants and needs while also reciprocating them.
I just have to say this: Mike, you’re a real man. A man is not defined by relationships or the physical aspect of it, at least not to me. This coming from a stranger might mean nothing to you, but the fact that regardless of your problems you take the time to try to help somebody else, talks a lot more about you than the physical condition that you have. You’re a real man in my book (and i’m pretty sure many more thinks the same around here), even if it’s worth nothing.
Mike – I see you as a real man. Sure, no one could ever be into me, but I can’t be the only horn dog who’d like you and be willing to get creative. But as for this guy and 99.999% of men, it is a problem when all men want the same thing and have the same ideal. And yes he has made comments about the snotty women who stick their nose in the air but he would still be with one if he could get them. It would be different if men’s types were even 1/10th as varied as most women’s types (not really calling myself a woman, but, you know..) but they’re not. I’ve seen this since I was a teenager. No matter what type of guy – jock, rocker, raver, punk, goth, rapper, metalhead, rivethead, nerd, etc. – no matter what type of guy the guy is, the girl he’s with or goes for is all the SAME – the perfect 10. Guys never date their own. They all want perfect. This is why I’ve never had anyone that’s into anything I like!!