A few days ago I got an awful call… My best friend called me to tell me one of our good friends committed suicide. I literally broke down. I know what its like to be at the brink and feel so damn lonely but i just couldnt believe he was gone. He talked a few years ago about him planning to hang himself one night at school and one of his roommates walked in before he had the chance to actually go through with it, and they talked and he decided he wasnt ready…. i wish someone walked him on him this time. if i only couldve sent him a message telling him how much i loved him… his death has opened my eyes. i dont think i would ever end my life knowing how many people would be hurting because of my decision. even people i wouldnt have expected it to effect it would. This man is the most genuine, kind heart and all around cool guy ive ever met. he brought so much sunshine when he entered a room and it just really hurts my heart how much pain he mustve been in…. Tell everyone you care about how much they mean to you and AlWAYS look through that a fake smile. if i could talk to him rn I would sit him down give him a huggggeeee hug maybe slap him and tell him how much loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee he had here and that i understand sometimes life gets to much so i dont blame him for wanting it to end. I know ill see him soon . hopefully our souls will find eachother in another dimension. Love you always fredward <3
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i am sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry about your friend
sunflower, Hello i’m sorry i’ve not had anyone do that i’ve actually have known personally, pretty sad, take care of yourself.
I’m sorry
Very sad.
sunflower, This is a very sad post i’m sorry 🙁 But i haven’t heard from you in quite a while you know Soooo HELLO SUNFLOWER!!!! AAAAA WOOOOO! This is your wolf daddy!!! and your my tiny dancer!!! I’ve missed you! 🙁
Hi Sunflower. You don’t know me. I’m new here. But I feel your pain.
Yeah, it sucks for those of us that are left behind. Their suffering is over; our is still real.
I can see what you mean about not wanting to kill yourself because you don’t want to hurt those who will miss you. I have thought about that too. But you know what? What if no one will miss you? That’s kind of how I feel.
You see, I had my own place for something like 15 years. And in those 15 years, no one came to visit me. No one called me on the phone. Not my parents, not my brothers, not my sister, not any relative, not any of my so-called friends in real life. You know, it’s pretty pathetic when one’s only communication is via emails and posts from people you don’t even know (ie: other anonymous internet users on forums such as this).
Yeah, it’s funny. No one cares a rat’s ass about you while you’re alive, but as soon as you’re dead, they come crawling out of the woodwork and go to your funeral and stand over your casket talking like they were your best friend. Fuck that. I don’t want no funeral. When it is my time, I’m going to do it in such a way so that my dead corpse will never be found! I’m an urban hermit. The world doesn’t know me in life, so it shouldn’t know me in death either.
At least that’s my thoughts on the matter.
Well, with that being said… and with the idea of fake people talking smack on you… here’s a cool old song by Son House that explains it all very clearly. Check it out. I hope you enjoy it. It’s one of my favorites!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gx1OFl_y-ic
Respectfully your new friend,
Jack