I am a horrible person

thehusk 3/6/2017 - 9:49 am

That doesn’t make you a horrible person.
If you kidnapped him and forced him to marry you by threatening to break his legs, then you’d be a horrible person.

You’re just someone with an unfortunate attachment. If it’s not going to happen, then try to get some distance and move on.

nutjobcantlove 3/6/2017 - 1:42 pm

That’s no crime and you’re not horrible. But its the worst feeling you could have to see the man you love choose someone else. To let go is so hard but try to stay away from him. Its gonna hurt you anyway. Hang out more with other people, who knows.. you might find another ‘most amazing guy’ 🙂

lxmyrick 3/6/2017 - 2:10 pm

That’s not terrible… I am on the same boat as you are. My best friend is an in a relationship and I can’t tell her because she’s in a relationship with someone else. But there is always someone else waiting to be in love with you.

_darkness 3/6/2017 - 2:16 pm

“But there is always someone else waiting to be in love with you.”

I wish I had a good someone waiting to be in love with me. It seems like no one wants me for me. 🙁

lxmyrick 3/6/2017 - 3:06 pm

You may haven’t met that person yet. They be 2 towns away or 2 to countries a way, but there is that one person you will meet that will be your perfect match.

This is what I believe and stand for. Just keep hoping and waiting for that one special person.

_darkness 3/6/2017 - 3:11 pm

It’s been too many years. How long must one wait? Knowing my shitty luck, I’ll meet that one person, actually want to live, and then die the next day. O_o *cue Alanis Morissette song*

lxmyrick 3/6/2017 - 3:25 pm

Darkness…
Do you want to talk about it?
I prefer to only leave a few comments and not to have a confession onSP, but if you want to talk more email me.
bobs65325@richland2.org

anhedonic apathy 3/6/2017 - 3:32 pm

“but there is that one person you will meet that will be your perfect match”

It really annoys me when people express a possible outcome as some predestined factual certainty. No there is no guarantee of ever meeting anyone. There is no universal law that says that you will. You can have all the hope or faith you want.

Hazy Day Sunflower 3/6/2017 - 8:25 pm

I love someone I will never have. I’ve loved him for decades. My heart goes out to you.

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