the fact that I have to even make this post is ridiculous.

don’t comment things that are even remotely sexual on my posts. I am a minor. I am a minor. I am a minor. no innuendos, no sex jokes, no encouraging me to be sexually promiscuous. it’s gross and it makes me want to cry. it’s triggering.  I thought I had made it abundantly clear that I have undergone long term child sexual abuse.  my sexuality is completely messed up because of it.  I’ve had abusers use the context of bdsm to make it seem like what was happening to me was “okay” and “normal”.  don’t give me abuse hypotheticals. don’t tell me ways to “get revenge” on somebody. just. don’t. it’s upsetting and I don’t want to hear it. don’t assume you know my situation. if you need context for things, it’s not that hard to read my past journals. please. i’m on this site because I’m not doing well. i don’t have the energy or patience to deal with things like this.

kindness and respect from me is a privilege, not a right.  nobody’s holding a gun to my head forcing me to be patient or polite with people.  in short, I’ll be kind to you if you treat me the same.  simple as that.