I started a new smaller school back in October and basically its for kids with emotional and social problems. It is now the end of February and I haven’t made a single friend which I guess is kinda sad but I’m just really bad with social interactions. I basically sit at the corner seat and dont talk to anyone all day. There is this girl who loves anime (I also love anime) and I would say I have a really good chance with her but its so hard for me to talk to her because I hardly ever see her and shes not in any of my classes. I dont want to be some creep that says hi randomly in the hallway, is that creepy? I’m gonna guess it is because she dose not even know who I am. and even if I was given the opportunity to start a conversation with her I dont really know what to say.
just looking for advice
thanks!
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hey how is it going.. talking to girls can be the most stressful yet most rewarding thing ever.. i want to encourage you that you have one of the greatest things going for you in that you both love anime.. talk to her about that… say hey you like anime right.. what is your fave.. everyone loves to talk about themselves at least a little…i met a girl here actually.. and approached her based on movie she was watching and her snack choices.. i was fortunate after that she ?ame looking for me, and then we bonded over a tv show that we loved to watch and joke about.. then if you get really lucky they will drink too much bolly and let the feelings out of the bag so you don’t have to stress too much…lol just in case you see this Bush..wink..wink.. im here for you tho if you like jon
Thanks, the support really helps. Ill give it a try
my pleasure… keep me posted..and keep in touch.. I went from so sad to so happy.. my kb is most amazing women in the world..
Guess I got a little unlucky and she didn’t come in today but I will definitely try again tomorrow!
Do you draw at all? Even badly, it doesn’t matter. Even just to start now, work on rendering anime characters you enjoy, it could get her attention/be an ice breaker. Eventually maybe draw a character in her likeliness.
Back when I was going to school, I’d doodle in class, and one girl who I had a crush on admitted it intrigued her/sparked her interest, eventually we started dating. It can be nerve racking talking to girls, but remember, they’re nervous too. You got this!
yea she is an insane drawer too i forgot to mention that. Ill give it a try, thanks. 😀
YOU GOT THIS! I believe in you
thanks 🙂