Ok so here’s my story. (Sorry if my english suck btw. Im French.)
I am 16 years old. Im good at nothing. I suck at school, I suck at sports.
I think im depressive because I dont like anything in life. Everything is too boring. I dont have a job so I just sit in my room playing computer all day in my parents basement. I have the feeling that I can’t do nothing right. Don’t have friends, never had a girlfriend. Its hard to know that your almost 17 and you never kissed a girl. I dont know what to do to get out of this situation. Im going to school 2 days a week so I have plenty of free time. I have already taught about suicide… but im not sure its the best solution… But its still one…
So yeah… that’s my life. Im not hoping for someone to come and save me, I know im the only one who can do that. But its just good to share my situation.
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I didn’t kiss anybody till I was 19. Kissed plenty of people since. Life still lies ahead of you.
Yeah… I guess your right… Thank you
If you don’t like anything, do everything.
And if you can’t find something to fill your time, learn something new.
Read. Watch movies. Watch people. Learn to grow tomatoes in your backyard. Learn how to play chess. Learn a new language. Learn to listen to people. As you find things that you like to do, you will eventually find people who will share your interests. Friends will come. If you don’t have a job, get one.
The only reason you may feel that you are not living, is because you haven’t started.
Like you said, it’s up to you to fix it. Don’t just sit on the computer if you don’t feel satisfied with that. Just one idea, it might not appeal to you, but something that got me to go out into the world more often was buying a good camera. Taking pictures is a decent way to pass time and appreciate the parts of life that you just ignore every day. Maybe while you’re out you’ll meet someone, or maybe not. I’m not one of those people who make it sound so simple like just leave your house for 5 minutes and you’ll make 20 friends and find a girlfriend. I know it’s not that easy. But there’s certainly a better chance that you’ll meet someone cool or find something you enjoy if you at least get out of the basement more often.
Do you really “not like anything” or is that just an excuse to cover up fears and insecurity? There isn’t a single sport you’d enjoy joining a team at the park to play? There isn’t a book you want to read or a movie you want to see? There’s no museum or landmark you want to go visit?
Everyone brings something good to the world, no matter how small that something is. And no matter how hard it is for us to find.