so just need to rant here…I am not having a good experience at the new place where I am living. The older room mate is a talker who is unaware of boundaries and when to just shut the fuck up. I humour her and say the appropriate things but it gets old really fast. I am feeling manipulated when she starts off with “so what are you doing tomorrow?” I now turn it around and say “Why would you ask that? Whats on the go for you tomorrow?”
I do not need to “check” in with her if I choose to spend the night elsewhere…
She is not my mother and I pay to live here, I buy and prepare my own food, I am not her chauffeur and we are not friends. WE Only live in the same place!!!
I am looking for a new place to live, on the right side of the city as this is way too far away from where I need to be. This was a last minute choice since the first place I lived had zero heat and was grimy, grubby, not clean. The good thing about “here” is that there is heat, it is clean, and the parking is free. Seems like I should be able to suck it up eh??? Well depending on how finances go and the job search go, will depend on how much longer I will tough it out here. Just saying that soem things can be tolerated and some things simply can’t be tolerated.
will see how long I can take this.
I am looking for a new place to live