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I am a 33 year old mother of two, I was with the father of my son & daughter for 12 .1/2 years. I was 16 when we started our relationship. He was 10 years older then me and how I found out was though finding his driving licence as he told me when we first met that he was 21:- (26)was the truth  even then he still tried to say it was a fake. I should of realised then what he was all about but being only 16 young and being my first love I was blind!! I do believe he did love me in his own way! We did have good times but I know now how he’d play me from the start until I left him as couldn’t take anymore. I’d seen the light I knew it was over. The last straw well thats it when i caught him cheating with my best friend on the sofa at my old address that we had together. I’ve not long found out that I was expecting our daughter and I got myself a little job for a few hours a week. I never left him straight away I did try to make it work as I was carrying our daughter. The realionship went from bad to worse at this time our daughter was two and our son seven. As I could not do it no more even for the children. I had put up with enough of him controlling me, from the beatings until I jumped out if my bathroom window as I thought he was going to kill me. My neck and face were black n blue also full of blood people who knew me said I was unrecognisable. More on top, the sex acts I was foused to do(Too humiliating to go into) Lies he told me was unreal think I lost count of the women he cheated with as their was that many! I still get told to this day about the women that he cheated with. A year or so later as I start to settle down with my current partner things took a turn for the worse. I meet his ex now she is one bitter n evil person as we’d got on untill this point she came to my home while I was in bed with both kids at the ages of 9yrs & 4yrs old! I was Woken up by my partner in the early hours if the morning with a call saying that his ex had been to his kicking off with a car full of  people & she was on her way to my house. He’d told me he’d rang police and they to was on there way. As I put down the phone I heard the car pull up out side my house she got out and started shouting!!! I was soo scared as she was sending people around the back my  house  telling   them what I had in my garden! Then a brick came through my living room window if awoke my kids it sounded like they were trying to get in my house the nosies they  made from back of my house to the front of the house was as if they were trying to break in and get me. My kids and me were shacking in fear of our life’s but we ‘d stayed quite as the fear was all a bit much to take in. They’d got caught for what they did but that didnt stop her she made up as friend again as she got a ban for drink driving and silly me help her out with running her about as it was near Xmas and she had six kids to buy for. That soon didn’t last long before again my windows were going through then she started on my car to pouring paint stripper all over it and slashing all four tyres and smashing up panels and windows. The went on for a few years and she got away with it time and time again! I was in privet renting accomadation so each time I had to replace my window and the window was a large one at 8ft by 5ft and double glazed. This was costing me £70-80 at a time.  I put in for a move with the council after I moved out of my old address I had once more to replace the window and also a PVC door as she basaballed batted it and put cracks and holes in it. This all cost me a further £300 roughly. I had no car at this point either as she’d smashed up two of them and I couldn’t afford another one! I also lost my job due to her and her mates going  in my place starting on the staff. I move well out of the way and she found out!!! I’ve had a car again smashed up a window put though and a door window smashed. She gets away with it all the fucking time. The last inserdence was roughly 7-8 months ago. She has done this before though left it a while then started up again. But now the problems have stated with my ex to whom is very good friends with one of my neighbours and that they don’t talk to me anymore and tell my everything. They have even made up stories about me and my partner. An inserdence happened at the bringing of this year to were my partner wasnt aloud home for two weeks though my neioubours partner whom lives in Preston and only stops at weekends and school hols add videoed an agument though our  kitchen window of my partner rolling a fag and kicking somthing. I have lived here now 4 roughly 3/4 years and not once Iv I ever seen my neighbours work. My partner is a self employed roofer and he works in all weather conditions very hard. So again where is the justice as the police didnt charge my partner with anything as there was nothing to charge him with! He suffered trying to find places to stay for what? Mean while my ex partner was providing them with the video camera. This is now all out of hand as now though my neighbours sticking there nose in my personal life my ex partner is now wanting to take me to court to fight for the kids to be taking off me! Though his allegations I have had social servers investetgating me and caffcass Involed I have never been so humiliated in all my life as the social servers have raked up my past and done a report and not only do both of my childrens schools know about me on a personal level but so dose my doctor and school nurse etc. we have been victerms in all this yet we are still being treated like criminals this is all so wrong! I feel I can’t take much more as noone will leave us alone to get on with our life’s!!! Please help!!!!