Next week is prom and I’m going with my boyfriend. Â I know thats great and all but after, hes spending the night at my house so he doesn’t have to drive back to his house. Â Cause of the distance from mine to his. Â Cool, right? Â Except the thing is… Â I DON’T WANT HIM TO!!! Â I don’t know why but I just don’t. Â I hate texting, I always have! Â Its even to the point where I don’t want to text my boyfriend! Â I don’t know much about love but he told me he loves me last night and we already started kissing and I’m not sure how I feel about him. Â Prom is next week and things just don’t feel right but I don’t know if I should break up with him or not and I’m stressed out. Â I really need advice and I’m scared because I don’t know what to do. Â He seems to want to move fast but I’ve been hurt so many times that I want to go slow. Â I don’t want him to spend the night because its weird and I just don’t. Â But no one seems to understand that and I don’t know what to do. Â Please, if someone could help me out with some advice. Â I’m crying as I write this because of how stressed I am.
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At the risk of him putting a rufie in your cup of punch, maybe you should stay home instead. I mean, if you really don’t feel you should be there and nothing really tethers you to this event, then by all means call it a night and kick back at home. If you have a pet, why night have a movie night with them instead? My dog seems to like watching Supernatural for some reason. Hmm. Perhaps because she’s always been a superstitious one.
Anyway, hope this helps.
Just tell him that you think things are moving too fast and you dont feel comfortable with him spending the night. If he really does love you he will try an understand that and respect your fellings, if not he was probably just trying to get in your pants.
What exactly does relate to suicide? I honestly think it’s too nebulous to nail down, especially with the younger generation – suicides among middle and high-school students seem to increase at a ridiculous rate every year.
It sounds like he is trying to have sex with you. If you don’t want to, then don’t (it sounds like you don’t). That being said, don’t put yourself in a situation where it will be really awkward saying no. In other words, if you don’t want to have sex with him, don’t wait until he’s staying over at your place to make that decision. Make that decision ahead of time and simply tell him you don’t want him staying over (just tell him your parents aren’t cool with it).