Lately my whole life has falling apart. Im 24 in California. Iv been with my gf for 5yrs. Iv left my whole family just to be with her here. (My family is in Michigan). So after 5yrs now she isn’t in love with me anymore. She says she loves me but shes not “in love with me”. She broke up witb me yesterday and now idk what to do.. like wtf iv built my whole life around her. Iv given her everything she ever wanted. I put her before myself and now it means nothing i cant just uproot myself whenever she feels like it. I was gonna leave back to Michigan but she doesn’t want me to. So what am i suppose to do.. sit here and watch her msg this other fucking guy she likes.. like wtf i cant take it im gonna snap and when i do its not gonna be pretty… like i have deppreson but this takes it to a whole new level.
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Unless there is more to this, sounds like she used u for the long con, and thinks she can continue to eat the cake basically.
Tell her you’re not her *****, move back, cut her the fuck out of your life, she needs to learn she can’t get away doing that to others.
I was once offered to leave mi, for ca as well, different scenerio, but i clearly saw that i was going to be used, so, i invited the only person i trusted for ten years, they didn’t want to leave everything behind, and i wasn’t going to leave behind the one person that kept me sane, so i was lucky to turn the offer down, found out that my own uncle planned to ditch me for dead on ca.
Listen to cursedcat. Great advice!
You’ll be the fool if you stay with her! At least you’ve had a girlfriend ffs!
Sounds like this relationship has come to the point where it is best for both of you to explore different paths and learn from the past. I am sure you did have many great times with this lady. You this as a measure of what worked and what didn’t work. This can have a very benificial outcome as you move forward. It sucks now, no doubt. Wish her well in life, and let her go.
Yeah but idk what didn’t work.. i asked her what changed and she just says idk.. so how am i suppose to know.. all i know is shes not “in love” with me anymore.
In time you’ll probably be able to look back and make some educated guesses of your own as to what went wrong, but for now, you have to accept that she either doesn’t know or isn’t willing to articulate it.
And, for the time being, the “why” isn’t important. All that matters is, she can’t reciprocate your feelings, she’s already detached emotionally and is texting other guys. Move back to Michigan, or wherever else YOU want to go. Whatever you decide, she doesn’t get a vote anymore.
I know how excruciatingly painful this must be, and I’m so sorry you’re going through it, justinallen 🙁