I absorb negative emotions so quickly and frequently. I don’t even have any reason to be upset at life. I’m just physically drained all the time.
I remember back in high school and earlier, I was always bright and full of life etc, but HS just ruined me. That’s not to say I had a rough time through it, I’m an average dude, had friends and did okay on subjects. But I was always invested in the idea of having a partner. Having someone to love and care for. And that want has slowly been stripped back piece by piece and I just don’t even try anymore.
I use to go out of my way to make people happy and find someone to share my life with (even if the relationship were only brief) but now I just can’t be bothered. Attempt after failed attempt, it’s become a cycle of bringing my walls down only to be punched through the chest and walked out on.
And I understand that you can’t change people’s opinions. If they don’t feel for you then fine move on. But don’t spend your time investing a fucking interest in me only to fuck off a few days later. Especially if I have admitted how hard it is for me to open my heart up to someone.
Anyway. Just wanted to write this because despite my shitty experiences, I met someone the other day who is genuinely a fun person. We joke around a lot. And there’s no signs of interest at the moment which is good cause then we can be friends instead of falling out. But she’s very cute and I wouldn’t mind getting to spend proper time with her. I guess what I want to say is, I hope this doesn’t get fucked up
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I hope things go well with this new person, whether you end up being friends or more. Sorry you’ve had a bad time, try not to lose hope or worry about her leaving… Just try to enjoy it. 🙂
Thanks 🙂 appreciate it
I’m with you on that.
I really don’t get it either, how people just walk out so easily especially after you warn them it has a high impact on you and it’s tough for you to let them get close.
They try to reassure you they’re gonna be there anyway yet leave right after.
I had a massive crisis around high school too. It really is horrible.
Sometimes it feels like bringing the walls down didn’t happen fast enough and that might be it, but maybe it’s a good way to filter out people who won’t stick around anyway… even though we get hurt in the proccess.
I really really hope it works out for you this time.
Goodluck
Mainly meant my highschool friends, but still felt like it fits.
I hope i didn’t bring you down but i just tried to say i get how you feel.
Don’t worry I completely agree.
Lose the deadweight that is people who don’t care about you