I think that if people don’t like you just move on, don’t spend time with them, it’s better being alone that trying to fit in their group.
P.S: have you tried meditation or mindfulness, it’s quite relaxing
Most importantly, do not hate yourself. I know saying “love yourself” is easy to say but extremely difficult to implement. Try to understand yourself, your feelings. Ask your mind what makes it feels pathetic. Give it a try.
Secondly, just do not think about what other people think about you. Just don’t give a single fuck. I know it is hard, but try it.
I have to agree with Darvin on this one. If they don’t want you around, then move on. Try surrounding yourself with people who actually want you around and who bring out the best in you. People who lift you up, not bring you down and make you feel terrible about yourself.
Well, also, stop hating yourself, if possible. Nobody should hate themself for doing what they need to do to cope. If you didn’t have to lie you wouldn’t do it… But you felt you needed to just to get by. That’s more survival than choice. So you shouldn’t be down on yourself for that.
Do what’s best for you, If someone doesn’t like you or doesn’t give you their all, their not meant to be in your life. Just stick around to the positive people. Look around you and really see how much people would need you (:
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I think that if people don’t like you just move on, don’t spend time with them, it’s better being alone that trying to fit in their group.
P.S: have you tried meditation or mindfulness, it’s quite relaxing
Most importantly, do not hate yourself. I know saying “love yourself” is easy to say but extremely difficult to implement. Try to understand yourself, your feelings. Ask your mind what makes it feels pathetic. Give it a try.
Secondly, just do not think about what other people think about you. Just don’t give a single fuck. I know it is hard, but try it.
I have to agree with Darvin on this one. If they don’t want you around, then move on. Try surrounding yourself with people who actually want you around and who bring out the best in you. People who lift you up, not bring you down and make you feel terrible about yourself.
Truth for truth.
“Just don’t ignore me and lie to me at the same time.”
Deal, as soon as you stop doing this: “I hate myself for lying everyday so that so someone can be happy even though they don’t even care.”
Truth for truth.
Anyways my lies weren’t that kind of lies. My lie was simply about me. What I am going thru ?
But as I told… No one cares.
So I have to stay quite.
But still nice advice.
Thanks 🙂
And that is a genuine smile. 🙂
Well, also, stop hating yourself, if possible. Nobody should hate themself for doing what they need to do to cope. If you didn’t have to lie you wouldn’t do it… But you felt you needed to just to get by. That’s more survival than choice. So you shouldn’t be down on yourself for that.
Thank you all for your advice.
Specially truth for truth.
But the bitter truth is no one cares at all.
But still I will try. 🙂
Do what’s best for you, If someone doesn’t like you or doesn’t give you their all, their not meant to be in your life. Just stick around to the positive people. Look around you and really see how much people would need you (: