First off Im not saying that people here should be out there enjoying life, if they can great.
What I am saying is that in my mind, I have come to realize more and more that there isnt much wrong with the world, I just cant enjoy it.
There are people out there with good friends that they can connect with, or even the strangers that they meet. They can be creative and set goals, be satisfied with what they accomplish and fine with what they dont.
I dont think I can.
I am a mess of emotions and wrong thoughts. A sadist that sucks at life. If I want to fix the problem which causes me to suffer then I should end me.
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You do have the ability to CHange aspects of your life you know.
So well you say that life can be good, and YES it can be.
So if there are things about your self that you don’t like then work on changing them.
If there are things that you don’t like about your life situations then work on changing them. (the stuff that can be changed anyways) (because yes there are some things that we cant change)
If other people can have friends and connect with others… then certainly you can too.
If you have had issues with not being able to in the past then you have to take inventory of your social skills and try to improve upon them. In order to mae friends you have to learn to BE a Friend too. Your past doesn’t = your future.
you can change your thoughts at any given time.
You can change your beliefs at any given time.
You can change the way you behave toward others at any given time.
You can learn something new and try new approaches towards certain aspects of your life
at any given time. You just got to put a little effort in.
There are a lot of books out there and info on the web that can helpful
and you have good people here at this forum you can connect with.
Your already reaching out for some help VIA your post and that is a good thing.
Try to make some online friends that can help you and go from there.
You’d be surprised how many people can pop into your life when you try to reach out.