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by hopegone

I wish I could talk about everything that happens to me with my girlfriend but I feel that I can make her angry with so many problems and in the end she finish the relation, because who wants a guy with so many problems, someone so weak
I wish I could be better for her
i feel sad

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Angeliyah16 4/3/2016 - 4:21 am

I hear you…I’m in your same position except they refuse to call me their girlfriend because they think too much is wrong with me.
But you know what, it’s not our fault we treat them well, we try and most importantly we love them. And like anyone else we have our problems and we’re strong enough to admit them.
You shouldn’t ever feel less than you are or make someone feel that way. Because there’s always guna be someone out there who falls in love with all your scars. I know this because I fall in love with people who admit all their problems and not shut me out cuz of it ??
You’re ok and you’re definitely good enough love ??

hopegone 4/3/2016 - 5:27 am

thanks for listening and support, really
i know they all have problems but I feel that upset with my problems
not to do, she is unique for me and I do not want to lose her
you who are in this position
You think she can accept me?
because I feel depress frecuently
and maybe i am a uptset for her

dyinginny 4/3/2016 - 9:22 am

I’m sorry you’re sad hopegone. I wish I had some great advice for you. Right now I’m just a lonely pathetic loser who is sad too. I hope you find someone who accepts you for all of who you are and loves you unconditionally. You deserve that. We all do.

DoubleZero 4/3/2016 - 11:08 am

Hey! I think I know what you mean. I don’t have a romantic partner, but lately I’ve open up about my problems with my mom and with a girl I now started to call a friend.
I say now because, as you, I never talked to her about my most important problems, because she’s so sweet and innocent, I thought she would run away from me. But she didn’t. She cried with me, and for me. She gives me advice and she’s been trying to help me with everything since I told her I was suicidal. I stay at hers for days when I can’t cope with everything in my own, and she let me be, doesn’t judge.
If I could find that in a friend, maybe you can find it in your girlfriend. I’m sure she’ll love you anyways. Scars and all.
Wounded does not mean unlovable, hon. And you deserve to be loved completely.

hopegone 4/3/2016 - 6:55 pm

I think you Understand me, it’s good to know I’m not the only one With These problems and I am not the only has this problems
again, really thank your words give me encouragement, hope
try talking to her and her accept me

DoubleZero 4/3/2016 - 1:29 pm

I’ve had a comment on moderation for hours now… Just wanted to say, I was surprised when I opened up about my problems with some people, for I found lots of support and my bound with them grow stronger. It may happen to you, as well. It can be wonderful! Wounded does not mean unlovable. Stay strong.

distant.road 4/3/2016 - 1:34 pm

At the start of your moderated comment, after the word ‘romantic’ .. you used a word starting with ‘p’ …. with ‘art’ in the middle… Try not to use that word. It’s a moderated word to prevent people from seeking them for other situations.

DoubleZero 4/3/2016 - 1:37 pm

Of course. Thanks for telling me!

distant.road 4/3/2016 - 2:20 pm

I just noticed that you had a second moderated comment. It contains a link. Links will also route the comment into the moderation queue.

DoubleZero 4/3/2016 - 2:26 pm

Yeah, that one I figured out. But while we’re at it, I see there’s a protected post and even tho I write my password I can’t see it. Know why?

distant.road 4/3/2016 - 2:31 pm

The author of the post creates a post-specific password. He/she then invites others to visit by supplying the post’s password through email or some other method.

DoubleZero 4/3/2016 - 2:34 pm

Oh, now I get it, thank you! Sorry for spamming this post and for bothering you. I should probably looked it up by myself, but really, I’m still trying to figure out this page. Thanks!

distant.road 4/3/2016 - 2:36 pm

As a side note… When you comment on a post, your email address is visible to the author of the post. That’s why it’s always good to use a generic email address here. (If you change your email address in your profile, that’ll also send your new comments to moderation for a little while.)

distant.road 4/3/2016 - 2:36 pm

Sorry, hopegone. 🙁

dividebyzero 4/3/2016 - 2:41 pm

I definitely know how you feel. That’s one big reason I haven’t had a girlfriend for the past 3 years, because I feel like eventually I would let her down in a big way because of my emotional problems.

kid.in.the.dark 4/3/2016 - 7:03 pm

That’s the same way I felt about my bf.. I thought that he didn’t really care about me, and that I made his life miserable. He yelled at me and held me as tight as he could saying that I was the best thing that ever happened to him. It melted my heart.

I know that telling him about my problems hurt him. He doesn’t like anything bad happening to me, but a lot does. Honestly, if you tell her and she leaves, one, she doesn’t deserve you and is probably a *****, and two, you’re too strong for her anyway. If you can tell her your problems and she’s the one who gives up, it’s saying that she’s weak and can’t handle it. You can because you are still here.

I love you, even if she doesn’t if you tell her about your problems.

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