There’s never enough time to do everything one wants to do, even in 90 years. Only so many bachelors degrees, masters degrees, doctorates, research projects, children to have, and especially apparently careers to be had since companies absolutely will not cooperate.

and while I’m waiting here in the ether, waiting for a company to cooperate, the siren call of the road not taken keeps bugging me. I found out last week I could go back for a second bachelors. I had thought that would be stupid, but when the advisor told me about it I thought about finishing up my second major in computer science.

Then last […]

It’s terrible all over, there’s no denying that.

War, war, every day. Always a new explosion or beheading.

Economy, economy, things are never better than “cautiously optimistic”.

Yet for some reason, the front row seat for the whole show has been meant for you.

Look at what we go through to try to hang on to this theatre seat!

Oncologist: “I’m very sorry, sir, you have stage 4 cancer.”

War medic: “We can save half your arm and one leg.”

Father: “Oh, hello? Do I know you? You look familiar…. ”

A horror movie I never bought a ticket for…..

Guess I’ll have to enjoy the show or walk out.

What IS on the outside […]

She said she was going to pursue me for stealing her identity.

She did it.

Not often I find something that makes this much of a difference, though I did almost trip into some anxiety along the way…. skipping that because talking about the anxiety makes it worse, I thought I was in trouble, if I was I’ll find out when I find out, but I’m not going to stress about it, why borrow trouble is my attitude. Talking about it actually could make it in specifics actually could make it more likely, irony abounds.

Anyway when I was replacing my mouse it came with a little disc, and that made me nostalgic for having a disc drive. That was the […]

Suicide jumper dies shortly after falling from Parking Structure 4

A woman threatened suicide at Parking Structure #4 in Santa Monica on Dec 6. Five fire trucks and a circus of squad cars and lordy knows how many mental health professionals… they talked her down.

Two weeks later she was right back in the same spot. Evidently none of the “help” helped. More fire trucks, more squad cars, send in the clowns again. They talked her down.

Another 2 weeks later, she’s back again and this time she did it fast before the circus arrived.

Don’t tell me the signs weren’t there, that nobody knew, or that she […]

My name is Sheena Talerico and I lied.

At first I just wanting some sympathy but I began to love that.

I stole my friend life and traumas , hacked her accounts and when she saw that I made myself mistaken for dead.

Now she wants to go to the police with all the screenshots and proofs.

After her sister died the whole school was there for her and the family.

They named the music hall  Niela (the girl who died), decided that every flowers that the kids would bring to school would be put against a memorial created on the back wall and that every anniversary of […]

I need to make the pain stop. But I’m not prepared to do the one thing that’s likely to end it. So I’m forcing myself to remain here. I’m choosing to continue this misery. I’m doing this to myself.

And tomorrow, maybe I’ll try to do something to make it all a little less painful. But right now, all I want is an escape. An off switch, a distraction, anything that allows me to forget my reality.

I’m all alone. No one really knows me, because I can’t allow anyone to see what I am. But that’s probably part of why I post here. Because when you […]

Some days I just want to start over. Or turn back the clock. But I can’t. It would be grand if I could end it and start again but better.

HDS

Hi I’m here after maybe 3 years of no posting to ask for your forgiveness.

I lied.

I told people that my big sister died and was in connection with Rina Palenkova but that’s not true.

Niela did really exist but I changed things in her story to make them mine!

I wanted people to care for me as the only thing they cared about is my old friend who is the real sister of Niela !

My old friend just learned about it as she typed her stage name on the web and saw the other profile I made with it lying too on this page.

She started threatening me […]

I’m 24 years old, I’ve been suicidal and haven’t wanted to live for as long as I can remember. Growing up I was dragged to many different doctors, therapists, and psychiatrists, all never knowing how to help me and my mental illnesses. I’ve tried over 20 different medications, several different types of therapy and even ketamine therapy as a last resort. The ketamine was somewhat helpful, but I realized that even with the combination of ketamine, antidepressants, and therapy, using the tools I’ve been given to try and better my life and my mental health, I still don’t want to live. You can say that […]

1. Where is the love? Do you have it in you, in your relationships? What about the people around you?
2. Are you feeling lonely?
3. Why can’t we fly like birds or cure every disease

Essentially that’s all this is, which I think is why I don’t utilize this place as much as I once did. Sorry in advance.

I’m quitting my job, Friday being my last day. Me? Lazy, not committed to anything, slow and too okay with being burdensome, quitting? Who would’ve guessed, huh? I really just can’t handle the intensity of the place. I like the residents, I like helping, but I’m not capable of doing what they seem to want me to be able to do. 4 or 5 12 hour shifts make me want to die. A big portion of the people I do work with […]

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Ran into this on my regular rounds on true crime and was dissappointed in the channel owner, and everyone involved really… What happened was that this mobile home park specialized in taking in people with sex offenses. I have special empathy for these folks, worked with them for two years. Everyone treats them like dirt. It’s incredibly hard for them to find someplace to live.

It doesn’t matter really the severity of your sex offense, everyone treats you the same. A rapist is treated the same as someone caught with their pants down, no kidding. Anyway I only worked with the habitual predators, because they […]

Thought I’d share some of what helps, maybe it’ll help some of you guys too

I don’t want a pickle, I just wanna ride on my motor cycle

and I don’t wanna die, I just wanna ride on my motory cy-cle

so maybe that’s what I need, a motor cyle, ya’ll never thought of that, did ya?! humor is a big defense mechanism for me.

Throw my brain in a hurricane, and the blind can have my eyes, and the deaf can have both my ears if they don’t mind the size.

Notice the pattern yet? Yeah, morbid humor.

I thought I’d include some decent Jazz, because you can’t go too […]

getting sent off to boarding school. seems weird transferring halfway through high school.

i was planning on ctb in a year or so. before i get to college. i thought i’d keep being friendless, a bad student, emotionally distant from my family until it was time. but i did want to spend some more quality time with them. regardless how disconnected and awkward my relationship with my parents seem sometimes, i know they still care. thinking about how much it’d kill them to if i did it is the only thing stopping me right now. i was planning to give them some good memories […]

I feel like I’m trapped on an island.

I’m waiting on a company to contact me with further instructions after I was hired by them. I was asked to take a drug test, authorize a background check, and get a physical examination.

I know I passed the drug test because I don’t do drugs and haven’t drank in months, I definitely passed the physical examination but it’s the background check that’s worrying me.

I have 2 DUI’s that I didn’t mention during the interview, hoping that the company wouldn’t find out. I don’t believe my DUI’s define me but my opinion is just that, my opinion.

The […]

So… assuming the “self” is a mental construct, in which disparate and conflicting emotional currents are tied together by a chain of memories into something that feels vaguely coherent… what “should” one do?

I mean, if I know that parts of me want to do terrible things, and other parts want to do selfish but basically normal things, and still other parts want to refrain from doing anything immoral and act honourably, and some parts just want to end everything… and I know that whatever I choose, there will never be peace in my mind… what do I do with that realisation?

Does it matter? Does it […]

I pulled into the petrol station circa 9am. There was a female junkie, quite animated, knocking on car windows. She went to knock on my window, ” watch the car” I said, getting out of the car She launched into a cock and bull story ” will you use my phone to call this…’.      “Too complicated, no time” I said walking into the petrol station. I came back out and she started again   ” I need 5.80 to get to Kildare, gimme 5.80″ she said. ” No time, maybe go in and ask the Indians in the petrol station” I said whilst pulling […]

I seemed to have missed that memo…

I just don’t see how “wonderful” life is. -_-

Trying to just move into a 1 bedroom next week.

I’m tired of trying to explain myself when it comes to how I’ll make payments and the like…

Everybody is saying to stay the course another year and get it together, stay with your brother. I’m fed up, not with my brother, fed up that this is the best I’ve been financially so far. I’m not saving much money, I’m trying to get some better certifications and move up at work… It just seems like despite what I’ve done to get to this point, it’s just not enough. Nothing seems to prove that […]