Different Now?

How old are you and in what state do you live in?

Because if you’re in high school and/or younger than 20, CHILL with the ‘love’ term. I know, right now he’s the right man and he’ll be there forever. It’s easy to get really attached to someone who shows you that they care… but there may be a time when that ends. I’m not being negative on your relationship! I love your relationship, I think it’s adorable. Just keep in mind, you are young, and your boyfriend is young. You met on facebook? Ok… Now, about the bullying, depending on where you live, people are extremely EXTREMELY closed minded. It could also be from maybe hearing that after two years with that chick, some rumors started popping up. Like how she turned you gay or something. Surprisingly, people really love to make fun of that. Which is probably why she doesn’t like talking to you; she may feel that she turned you gay. As for being called a fag, for now, go to teachers about it. That is actually a hate crime. They are offensive slurs. It helps if you can manage to record it somehow on a tape and remember who said those things. It’ll either warn the others to shut their fucking mouths or it could fuel the fire… but either way, you’ll show that you’re fighting against it all.

Honestly, I love bi/gay folks, I think you’re a sweet guy already. At my school, we had two gay guys, and they were ‘forced’ to go out with each other because of peer pressure and because they couldn’t meet anyone else. I was a talker with both, they knew could ***** to me, and they admitted that after high school it was over between them because they knew they could move away and meet new people. I want to see you make it through high school. Hell, if you can, pick up a martial arts class just for self defense. Because you never know when these insults will turn into attacks. You never know and you can never be too cautious. I wish you good luck against the haters and I hope you and your boyfriend continue to be happy!