It’s done. That final thing I had is about to be taken away from me. First my family made me their scapegoat, then I found out that 90% of my so called “friends” actually have been bitching behind my back for nearly as long as I’ve known them and now my boyfriend is going to leave me. Basically this girl (ex girlfriend) he slept with (with protection) is trying to say that it didn’t work and that she is pregnant. She has also given him an ultimatum, either he goes back to her and they be a “perfect” family, or he will never see the child. Basically she said this because she knew his father was a screw up as a dad and my boyfriend doesn’t want to be the same. My boyfriend has refused to do anything until she has proof, but before when I asked him what would happen if it was his, he just said “I’ll always love you, no matter who I’m with” (implying he would go back to her). It’s just so stupid. She is so selfish, not only to me and my boyfriend, but to the child as well. I mean growing up in a house where the parents stay together for the kids really just upsets the kids more (been there, done that). Plus she doesn’t even want children. She’s already going on about how it ruined her life. Yet I have always wanted to be a mother, and this week I was told that I would probably never be “mentally fit” enough to be a mother. I just feel like everything’s been taken away from me and I just don’t know anymore….
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my advice to you about this “not mentally fit” is to prove everyone wrong (im not saying to get pregnant) but i mean that that is just a label. i have been labeled tons of things PTSD, suicidal but im not. everyone has a dark place mine is just more open. my point is that labels are jut labels. with your boyfriend if he was cheating on you i would be upset but please dont shut him out if tha girl is really pregnant because this is going to be VERY hard for him..he need you
Maybe one day I’ll try to prove them wrong, but at the moment, I’m honestly too scared to bring a child into the world if they aren’t going to be catered for correctly. I must of worded the part about them sleeping together wrong, he wasn’t cheating, they slept together before we got together. I don’t plan to shut him out ever, but I’m worried she’ll make him shut me out :/
Hun, bitchslap the *****. You’ve every right to call her a skank because of what she did. Don’t punch her because if she really is pregnant, you might get in trouble. Now, you might want to scold your boyfriend for cheating on you. that’s a huge no no. You need to have a sit down and a serious discussion with him. Tell him if he really loves you, he wouldn’t be fucking his ex. No matter what. If she does end up pregnant, let’s hope hope that what he told you is true. You can always try to convince him to just pay child support or whatever and see the kid every now and then. If this chick’s mom finds out she’s pregnant, I’m sure she’ll demand that the father go see the child. No matter what that skank says.
But all in all, don’t give up. Even in the darkest of nights, there is a sunrise. There is a light. You just have to keep going and keep reaching for it.
I must of worded the part about them sleeping together wrong, he wasn’t cheating, they slept together before we got together. Sorry about any confusion :/ I’ll try not to give up, but it’s getting harder and harder :/
Ohhhh… and how long ago was that then? Because if she doesn’t have a baby bump and it’s been over two months she’s a lying *****.
It’s been about three months according to her and she is showing, but she was also with another guy around the same time, so it could be his
Paternity test her ass!!!!
Yeah, that’s what my boyfriend wants to do to get proof or else he says he’s not doing anything for her
good boyfriend! Excellent boyfriend, make sure she does it or you can file harassment charges on her.
yeah I will. I was thinking of just going straight to the cops with blackmail charges (would be easy because my family are nearly all cops lol), but my boyfriend is the “I can do it alone, just trust me” type, so I’m going to trust him unless things get really bad. But yeah, I’ll make sure she gets the test done.