I do not understand, at all, what people enjoy about going out “partying”. It stinks of shit, cigarette smoke, stale alcohol, urine, sweat and garbage, it’s fucking loud, as in so FUCKING loud that you’ll go deaf and you have to scream in each other’s ears to be heard, it’s expensive, a rip off, a con, and you’re supposed to get drunk, and if you don’t drink you’re a fucking loser. And obviously – OBVIOUSLY – I can’t fucking dance so that’s hopeless as well.
And then to ‘cap the night off’ there’s some sort of obligatory purchase of a street food item, usually a fried piece of dog shit scraped off the road and served with radioactive ketchup. Now THAT’S what I call a ‘good time’ folks.
Jesus fucking christ I am sick of this. I walked out just now from a loud bar, barely said goodbye to the people I was with, and will never see them again. I just wish I hadn’t gone out with them in the fucking first place.
Fuck this shit.
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I never really liked clubbing either. I just went out occasionally, because my friends were going. I find the music too loud as well, plus I’m not a drinker either, so I just watch people getting drunk and acting crazy. I’m much happier staying in then going out clubbing.
I’m 22 and honestly I’m proud to say I’ve never been to a ‘party’ or even stepped foot in a club.. I dont drink much either so it wouldnt be fun for me anyways. I don’t think I’m a loser but I’m societies eyes I would definitely fall under that category for what I just said.. sad isn’t it?
never really liked going out myself but that may be because I worked UN a bar fir years. would much rather hang out at home like I will for this new years eve.
Ohh yes.. don’t remind me.. the dreaded new years eve. it will be the first NYE in 5 years that I will be alone.. I dont know if ill be able to handle it. god please I dont want to go through that. ={
Totally on the same page. Except for a couple of times, being packed into a club make me fell claustrophobic AND agoraphobic at the same time. I don’t even know how that fucking combination works. I’d much rather chill with friends at a house or go to a good bar where we can relax and talk.
As of tonight I am no longer putting up with this shit. If I go out with someone and it’s loud, or I don’t like it, I’m leaving immediately, and if they have a problem with that they can go fuck themselves. I’m finally realizing what a ***** I’ve been for so long. So what if they don’t think I’m cool, I don’t want to hang out with them anyway!
I’m not standing for it anymore. Fuck normal.
You’re a douche. Or you just don’t have cool friends, so going out is pointless and boring.
Wow, you’re not alone, hadldhjf! I am surprised someone else out there feels the same way!
Partying may be cool for some but I certainly don’t think it’s anything but the things you described. It’s boring, and I think it’s pointless too… Don’t know why some people think it’s so fun…
Yeah, eff normal!
Normal does not equal “correctness” and does not equal “awesomeness”.
Be yourself and don’t lose to peer pressure. You’ll go far!
I go to partys to get pissed on other people alcohol and forget. I don’t really talk to anyone. I just sit in the corner and drink.
It’s the only sociably acceptable way to get completely shit faced just to forgot. If you drink alone in you room…… Bad
If you drink alone but with a group of people…… Good
See ?
Hey jack86, I’m guessing your way of letting off steam is to come on here and insult people – as I saw in your other posts. I pity you.
Thankfully I don’t have any cool friends, oh yea that’s right, they’re not cool they’re loud-mouthed drunk fools – I’d rather hang out with a starved fucking lion than spend a second more with those morons. Heading back to my hometown fairly soon, where I do have some decent friends.
@hadldhjf
I don’t know why you’re offended. My comment was just based on what you said. Either
A) you have friends who are cool/decent people and are trying to go out and enjoy themselves and include you in their circle, but you are killing the mood and acting above it all, or….
B) your friends really are as obnoxious as you say, so going out with them is hell.
I’ve been in both situations (I have at times been the douche who wouldn’t allow myself to have a good time, and other times have just been around people who sucked ass).
Best of luck to you heading back to your hometown. But I warn you, things change, people change. Make the best of what you have now, because sometimes things aren’t the way you left them.