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I’m a good person… Why can’t that be enough

by ismedyl

Girls don’t like me I’m average looking maybe better than average to some girls. They don’t like me. Guys don’t want to be friends with me girls don’t want to be friends with me people don’t want to hang out with me because I’m not cool enough for them. That being said I’m a nice guy I give money to people I buy ************’s coffee at Starbucks I give money to hobos I treat people with respect I’m companionate why isn’t that enough?

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Darvin 9/19/2015 - 1:00 am

I’ve come to realize that being good with others in today’s society isn’t enough to have friends or even a girlfriend. In order to make friends you have to be rude with people weaker than you, you have to make dirty jokes… to put it simple you have to entertain theme. As for girls they like bad guys better than the good ones i guess. Anyway my advice is don’t change yourself in order to fit in in to a group of people, if they don’t like you thats their problem not yours.

dare.poe 9/19/2015 - 1:53 am

On this site I’ve seen you call someone stupid. I’ve seen you call someone a screw up. I’ve seen you judge someone’s completely human mistakes. I’ve even seen you express that you want to hurt someone.

Someone… namely yourself.

This is not something a good person does.

A good person buys himself a cup at Starbucks and talks to himself and listens to himself and forgives himself. And then goes out in the world and maybe fails again but still forgives himself. Ad infinitum.

Once you do that other people will want to be around you. Do that and you’ll be doing more than helping hobos; you’ll be giving hope to heroes. Do that and you’ll see the difference between fake fawners and formidable friends. Do that and you’ll live and love and likely lick leather looms loosely. I have no idea what that last part meant.

Forgiving yourself… sounds easy but tricky to do. A therapist armed with drugs may be required to help. Being open about your thoughts will be a must. It will take time. It will take practice.

The payoff is one day you will have the love of your life in your arms and you can tell her the story of how making mistakes and forgiving yourself led to this most wonderful of days. And she will sigh and be happy to hear this because she was nervous about telling you she wrecked your car.

ismedyl 9/19/2015 - 12:40 pm

First off dude I’ve been here for a week you don’t know me is #1 and I have to say the fact that I see a comment from you on every damn post irks me man do you get paid to give your 2 cents. And with that being said I didn’t call anyone stupid I didn’t judge anyone’s mistakes I got upset with some people who were trying to convince a girl who wanted to end her life not to because hey it’s not your choice and if you convince her it’s going to come full circle and she will be right back to where she was

dare.poe 9/19/2015 - 2:27 pm

I was trying to say that you were judging yourself too harshly. You’ve been nothing but supportive to everyone else.

I’m sorry you find me unpleasant.

rocketman 9/19/2015 - 8:28 am

Darvin,

i like your comment, i will add in the old days we didn’t have cell phones computers and so on, people made a friend and hung out for years with eachother today you can make friends every 5 minutes and discard them in 5 min, people want more than a cup of coffee they are self centered and greedy. hey just an observation:)

Agony 9/19/2015 - 12:03 pm

It is good enough for me, and for most. Don’t waste anything on someone who doesn’t agree

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