So there is this girl that I like at my high school, but i am too much of a ***** to ask her out. It’s just that why would she, or anyone for that matter, want to be with someone who is suicidal? I like her a lot though and I would like to think that being with her would change that. Like hell, when I’m around her, I can’t help but smile. But always when I get home, I just start thinking, “Would anyone really miss me?” Besides, in early November, I was such an asshole to her that she stopped talking to me for a little over two months. When she started messaging me again, I was so surprised. But either way if I did ask her, the chances her liking me the same way back is miniscule. Any advice?
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Well, I don’t have a good advice on how to approach her. I may be a little negative here: hey, it may be inevitable for you to like her, and it is a good thing you two may talk and be friends and all, but don’t let your happiness and tranquility depend on her. On nobody. I mean, it may or may not work, but you have to find a way of knowing you can be ok with or without her. That is going to change the way you approach her, if you know you can be ok without her, there will be no anxiety and things will go a hundred times better. How can you do so? Maybe approaching other people first, learning how to talk with someother girl as friends, is that a possibility? The more you concentrate just on her, the worst. If you know the world is bigger than her, the easier it will be for you to be comfortable around her and viceversa. It’s not much but I am being sincere here. And yes it will take some time, but it will be worthy
Thank you dude. 😀