For the past six months I’ve been strugling with severe problems in my life. The main reason was breakup with my girlfriend after 3 years. Since the breakup I havent slept more than 5 hours a day, I don’t even go out anymore (in fear I might see her) and overall I’ve isolated myself from the outside world and things got so far I’ve been inches away from commiting suicide, however there came a point where things started to go more positive; me and ex talked about the breakup and deicided that it’s best for both of us if we just stay friends, I’ve got a job, met new friends and even started dating this new girl that I’ve met.. and then suddenly, out of nowhere: ex cuts me off (I’m scared that she totaly hates me), they fire me from job, friends and the new girl don’t reply to my texts and calls and for no obvious reason I miss my ex… I miss my ex so damn much… I thought I was over her but three days ago I have dreamed of her, and have dreamed of her every day since… It kills me from the inside..
I totaly feel like a wreck.. My solution is becoming more an more obvious – to leave all this behind, to go away, to die.
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Theres a better day coming buddy. Theres a lot better woman out there for you, that will knock you off your feet, outa your shoes AND THOSE SWEATY SOCKS! Lol Make today an adventurous day in trying to find her. One woman isnt worth dieing for when theres Miss Right looking everywhere for YOU!!!
Thank you very much for your kind and cheerful words. It really made me think alot about my ex, was she good enough for me? (and not the other way around) Was she really ‘the one’? That kind of thinking had boosted my self-esteem sky high and thankyou once again!
But on a side note: do you, perhaps by any chance, think that we could be back together? Because she expressed hatred for me, but on the other hand, when we bumped into one another the other day, she looked so glad and happy to see me. Also, I’ve been getting hints from her (girl) friends that she really misses me alot, and she is also totaly devastated despite the fact that she was the one determined to break all the contact.
It just makes me even more confused..
Well take one day one moment at a time. I dunno your ex so i couldnt answer if it would work out, but let me ask this… If you try to force it to work out and it doesnt is it going to leave your depression worse off? If so honestly id leave to relationship alone and go searching for “THE ONE” thats searching for you. Also as a woman speaking a lot of women want to play with a mans emotions to see how far they can bring them down and to control them so I ask you this… Are you sure thats not wat shes trying to do?? Just be careful plz. Your welcome to email and keep me posted. Sberkley79@gmail.com
Let that girl go man! Like Saundra said- plenty of other women. We all have ‘that one’ that was tough to get over- but you can’t wait for a girl that broke up with you- you’ll never move forward. Let her regret the break up.