ok, so ima say tonight NEVER happend. i LOVE my bf, too much, even if hehurts me..oh well. well 8 hrs ago i was asked out by the guy who denied asking to have sex me. well what the hell? at first i said no, then i wanted to see how much fun i can have for once so i got ready and walked down to his place, so we went to the movies and he is ULTRA flirty, i guess he still likes me. the whole time im thinking “dont fall, i have a bf, play it cool” well then we hung at his house for bout 5 hrs, then my mom called sayin i had to come home. so i left. now idk nothin happened but i feel like i betrayed my bf. im just not ganna let this count as betrayal. after all nothing happened?/
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How does yr bf hurt u?
Well honestly it kinda sounds like yr trying to get back at yr bf – like yr tryin to prove you have power, by going out with this other guy. It’s playing with fire and in the end, you’re the one who will get blamed for everything. Better off being upfront about everything. If u like the new guy more, dump yr bf and go with him. Or, talk to yr bf about the problems yr having. But don’t sneak around like a criminal. In the end, you will just cop shit from both sides for this
@one_day: my bf is long distance and he doesnt make much effort and i always think he is cheating. so i said yes to have some fun for once. the only way this will uravel is if someone tells i LOVE my bf but i kinda like this new guy but not close to how much i love my bf
Give him a chance but don’t go too far. And as for your bf, I know that you love him, but the question is: does he really feel the same way? Honestly I don’t like either of them, however he does sound a lot better than your bf. Is this guy a player though? If he is dont even bother. You deserve someone better.
The mature thing to do would be to tell your current BF that he doesn’t seem like he tries very hard for the relationship, decide whether you even want to be in a long distance thing, and then once you have those answers, you’re free to do whatever you want. You can convince yourself of whatever you want but I think most people would consider it a betrayal to go out alone with one other guy, not in a group of friends, to a movie, especially someone who you know wanted to sleep with you. Figure out your situation with your boyfriend first otherwise you’re just going to create a lot of drama. Thinking that your boyfriend cheats on you doesn’t mean that he does.
let your heart/mind/intuition guide you. listen to yourself. ask yourself questions. even if the answers don’t pop out automatically, keep thinking and thinking and thinking. eventually you will find the right answer to your problem.
good luck
I completely agree with ‘ThousandCuts’.
Only thing i can add is that even if your current boyfriend IS cheating on you, it doesn’t give you an excuse to do it too.
Lonq distnace or not,don’t cheat on him!Espicially with a quy that only wants to fuck,I mean come on,If your qonna cheat then why cheat with a asshole?Break up with him If your qonna cheat!
Hannah, I hope you are ok… I have missed you. I have something very special to share with you. I hope you still have my email, if not let me know and I will give it to you again. It’s a gift, for what you have done for me… Chin up, Hannah.